Do you want to save you failing relationship? Do you think that your partner is worth fighting for? There are times when the feeling is only one sided; you may think that your relationship is worth giving another try, especially when you have been through so much together.
However, if he feels completely the opposite and wants out... If he does not want anything to do with you anymore and he does not really care if you try...
If this is the case,
Here are some techniques that you can use to save your relationship on your own.
Give him the last chance to make up his mind, but this time pull out all the stops. Invite him for dinner; dress in the most breathtaking dress, and of course, invite him to STAY afterwards. He will immediately catch on the idea; if he wants to make amends and find ways to save your relationship, then he is really the guy for you. But, if he sees that this is just another tactic to make him come back and ditches your invitation, just letting him go do his own thing can be best.
· Tell him that you want to have a last one on one talk with him to see how you two could patch things up together. Tell him that this meeting will be a "forgive and forget" type of meeting and the past is going to be behind the both of you from now on. If he obliges and asks you when you will meet, then give him a chance; but, if after you have texted and called him up several times and still he says he will think about it, then he deserves nothing from you.
· Find out what he thinks about you dating another man. Give him the hint that you may consider taking the invitation of a colleague at work or from your closest friends; see what his reaction is. If he says you can go on and schedule that date, he may have already found someone for a date too. But, if he says hold on and is concerned about your love life, then he may still have feelings for you.
· Email him pictures of your life after he has gone and see how he likes or hates it. You can easily tell if he is interested if he says that he wishes he was there or if he asks you what you have done with all his stuff. He may have moved on if he does not reply or if he sends you pics of his life as well. However, if he tends to be shy, he may not know how to react. So, give him the chance to reply by asking how he is doing.
Finally, give him space. See how he likes the wind in his hair for once. Sometimes it can be good to be away from each other to realize how much you miss and need one another. Remember that if you set your love free and he comes back he is the one true love for you.
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