Use Body Language Flirting Together With These Tips To Make A Great First Impression!

Did you know that the most important decisions about a person are made within split seconds of first seeing them?

Yes!

It's the first impression you make that decides whether that girl you want to pick up likes you or not and...

...that same first impression is a crucial factor in determining if you're even worth talking to or not.

This first impression can be made upon a glance; you may not even get the chance to open your mouth and say something, or even smile, before a girl has decided what she thinks of you. When you consider it, you will realize that you do the exact same thing as well. When you see a girl, you mentally categorize her. You decide how pretty you think she is, if she takes care of herself, if she uses body language flirting to get you attracted to her and if you're interested. You decide if she looks like a person you want to get to know - or more. Or you decide if you want to avoid her like the plague.

That's why it's absolutely necessary to do whatever it takes to really make a smashing first impression, but...

...how do you do that?

You might not have the first idea of where to start. Well, there are a few things that need to be utilized to achieve that goal, so...

...let me get through them for you now. They'll be very useful together with some good body language flirting.

Ready?

Be Sociable.

No body language flirting will help you make a great first impression, if you don't get out there and talk to people.

Let me ask you, what's the first thing that comes to mind when you see someone who's sitting alone in the corner of a room, and not talking to anyone? If you're anything like me, you probably feel there's something wrong with that person and... you avoid them. One, they look like they're absolutely no fun. They either don't know how to have a good time, are too shy to come up and talk to anyone, or they're so not worth talking to that other people have decided to leave them alone. You make that split-second judgment and decision on a first impression, just like I talked about.

So if you don't want to end up like them, with people totally ignoring and avoiding you, it's important that you are sociable.

Get out of your shell, if you have a habit of hiding in one, and talk to people.

Laugh.

Smile.

Use how you walk, how you move your hands and other body language flirting strategies.

Be comfortable with who you are, and you'll get herds of women wanting to talk to you. After all, who doesn't want to have a friendly chat with the most popular person in the room?

I know a lot of you may have a hard time coming out of your shells, and that is understandable. However, the best thing you can do for yourself and your happiness is to get over it. The first few times you find yourself opening up to people, you will realize that it isn't so hard or that big of a deal. And hey, keep in mind that if you mess up - you're awkward, or people reject you - it isn't the end of the world. This is part of the process of learning how to communicate and how to act. Everyone falls down at some point or other, and the important part of this is that you pick yourself up and move on. The next person you talk to will get you out of your shell even more, and then the next, until you look back and realize that it doesn't bother you in the slightest to be sociable. You will eventually find yourself having a bunch of fun, and that is the whole point.

Be Funny.

Apart from using body language flirting and showing a girl you think she's attractive with your non verbal language, it's very important to be funny.

There are two things you're communicating to a girl when you're able to drop a good joke every now and then while talking to her.

One, you tell her that you're comfortable around her, and two, you show her that you're intelligent and... exciting!

On top of that, if your jokes are actually funny, you will make her laugh, which has been proven to be one of the most effective ice breakers out there, so...

...be funny and women will be drawn to you!

You may not be the best joke teller.

Well, one way to improve that is to practice. That's what comedians do, and if it works for them, it's going to work for you too.

Find out what style fits you best, when it comes to being funny. Maybe you're better at telling stories than you are at delivering one-liners. If so, craft a few amusing stories to carry around in your back pocket. When the occasion arises, you'll have the perfect ice-breaker and a way to really charm a woman.

When you have more than one story or joke, you can either find the right one to suit the moment you're in, or just continue to be really entertaining. You can't go wrong when it comes to being funny, so long as it's coming to you naturally and isn't forced.

Be Unique.

I am sure you've heard this before, but it's so important that I really want to make sure you get it.

Most pickup and dating programs out there will tell you that you should use specific lines or approaches together with body language flirting, which, they say, have been proven to work.

The only problem is that if too many people use those approaches, the girl you're trying to pick up will get completely sick of them and what's more... ...she'll think that you're one of those retards telling her the same thing over and over again. She's so sick of the same lines and the same type of lame guys that it isn't even funny. I am sure I don't have to tell you what that would do, right? You have a mind that is capable of coming up with ways to attract any girl out there. You might fail sometimes, but generally speaking, it's easier than you think. There's absolutely no point in trying to be like all the other guys out there.

You're your own person with your own strengths, and you don't want to be like any other guy. You want to be the cool person that you know you are.

The sky is the limit when it comes to ways you can use to get a friendly conversation going.

So, here's what you do...

Sit back and think about what makes you unique and interesting. Think back to those things that you were proud of in your life. Work from that, not from a bunch of corny jokes and flimsy body language flirting techniques you and one hundred other guys read about.

This is how you're going to have success.

First by having a good idea of what makes you unique, and by being able to incorporate it into conversation that will engage her and make her more intrigued by you.

Keep in mind, also, that when you have refined the way you're acting and know how to make a good first impression, there will still be times when the person you are interacting with just doesn't feel it.

You won't feel them, either.

First impressions really do decide how a relationship of any kind will continue, and so if you don't feel it within the first few minutes, just write it off. No body language flirting or other tricks are going to help here.

Move on to the next, if you feel like you're wasting your time. It isn't a big deal.

There you go.

You've just gone through some of the most basic, but at the same time, most effective first impression pointers out there. Use them. They're good.

I use them, together with body language flirting all the time and... with awesome success!

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Men And Relationships - How Much Do You Care About Your Inner Game?

Before we jump into men and relationships, I want to tell you that studies have shown that if you do something regularly for a minimum of twenty one days straight, you'll establish a habit that will be quite difficult to break.

This goes for anything, from beginning a new exercise regimen to starting a new diet, to quitting smoking.

Any sort of activity you want to do, habit you want to break or pick up. All of these things are set into stone after twenty one days of consistent behavior and action.

With all of that said, I have something interesting for you.

Inner Game Vs Outer Game

You've probably heard me say before that when it comes to men and relationships, the inner game is much more important than your outer game.

In fact, I'll go one step further and tell you that women are not attracted to guys that have no inner game.

There are guys who run around constantly. They'll be smooth talkers, they'll be cocky, they'll act like they own the world, but no woman is going to take them seriously because it's all a front and those guys don't have much of a personality.

Guys like that tend to use outer game to conceal the fact that they don't have a lot going on inside.

Women will often be turned off by a guy running "big game" too. It's because those men are often too aggressive and come off as jerks.

As you know, it doesn't hurt to be a little cocky, but a guy pushing his outer game will often go too far with that.

Why?

Because his actions are not based in natural confidence so he's essentially a fake and comes off all wrong.

Remember what I've told you before, that women are very perceptive and won't appreciate it when they sense a guy is faking it.

I mean, think about it for a moment.

Do you think a guy that's perfectly happy with himself sits there at his desk learning one liners and stupid jokes to break the ice?

Of course not. The reason why he doesn't do it is that he's able to relax and think on his feet.

He's able to be himself because he understands men and relationships. He knows his own value and that he has what it takes in order to draw a woman in.

He doesn't sit there panicking whenever he sees a girl he wants to talk to. He thinks that no matter what happens, he's still going to be himself and the world will keep turning and...

...he goes for her.

He just talks to her not worrying that he's going to lose her.

He knows that there are tons and tons of women around he could talk to, so even if this particular one doesn't work out, he'll just move on.

He knows that if it doesn't go well, for whatever reason, that it's no big deal. He'll get the next one and won't let it shake his confidence. He's got that inner spark that lets him shake off nerves and not have to hide behind stupid games and cheesy pickup lines in order to talk to women.

Do you really want her?

The type of girl you want probably isn't going to be charmed by stupid one-liners anyway. That's what all men and relationships coaches tell you.

You should want a higher quality of girl who is above the rest and is able to see the difference between cheap outer game and a quality guy.

And honestly, should you have to work that hard just to land a girl? No.

Having to research stupid stuff and waste a lot of energy perfecting your outer game is pointless.

You can just rely on your own inner game and get what you want without all of that extra fuss.

Let's get blunt for a moment.

If you understand that inner game is important, if you really know how men and relationships work, and far more important than outer game, then what you need to do is forget the openers, one liners, sayings and all the other crap and focus exclusively on who you are.

On the other hand, what do you think a guy who doesn't really believe in himself will do?

He'll probably take a day to gather the courage to go meet some women, when he finally approaches his first target, he'll not know what to say, or he'll come off as fake and weird. It's a sure bet that he'll get rejected and...

...go home, heartbroken.

After that happens a number of times, unless someone motivates him to go do it again, he'll most likely never leave his house to meet a girl.

And even if he manages to pick himself back up and get out there again, he'll be using the same techniques he did before.

And he'll fail again. So much for all the men and relationships advice he got, right?

There is absolutely no way to succeed when you're going about pickup that way, trust me. It's just a sad story every single time so...

...work on who you are and you'll do much better with women. That's a promise.

How do you get that vibe around you?

Well, there are many ways to go about getting it, but the one thing I'd recommend for anyone struggling with their self esteem is...

...travel.

It is amazing what travel does for you.

You get to meet people that do things totally differently than you do. You learn things about the world that you thought were impossible. You meet people with viewpoints completely different to your own.

It opens up doors to new foods, new languages, new cultures, and new landscapes. The world looks very different to you once you've traveled.

The best part is, now you have a great selection of memories and stories that you can talk about.

You're not just talking about some quality you think will come off well, and therefore have no spark while talking about.

Another great thing to do is...

...pick up hobbies. This isn't something they tell you when they talk about men and relationships, but it's extremely important.

This can be just another facet of your personality and the things you do that you can talk about.

People are going to ask you what you do in your spare time and answering that you watch TV or surf the internet is boring and uninspiring.

That lack of experience and drive is a huge turn off. So, pick some new things to try that you think sound interesting and give them a go. You'll see that they'll be extremely effective with women. It won't even matter what it is.

Reading is great with women too.

Even if you only pick up a newspaper, and I'm talking about more than the comics or the sport's section, you will be able to expand your horizons.

You learn things about the world around you and can talk easily and knowledgeably about them. Girls will be impressed by a man who knows what is going on.

Hang out with your friends more, try new things with them. Any experience you gain that is good and can be talked about is just more of a bonus when it comes to conversations with women and making connections.

This will give you not only confidence, but will also provide you practical knowledge and a certain duality about you that will be very interesting to everyone around you, no matter who it is.

This is it for today. You got some great advice on men and relationships, so go have some fun!

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What Do Men Want? The Important Things You Need to Know

What do men want? Haven't you always wanted to find out the answer to this? Have you ever wondered that maybe you keep losing the men in your life because you simply have no idea what they really wanted to begin with? Don't worry. Most women don't have a clue when it comes to this, but the good news is that you can learn exactly what men want here.

Despite what many women would like to believe, most of them have no idea what men actually want. So, if you want to get an advantage over them on your next date for a change, here is everything you need to know about their wants and needs.

1. Men want women who don't talk.

Sad but true. While most women can spend all day talking, men would rather not listen to them, if possible. In fact, the amount of time that women spend on talking is probably the most common thing that men complain about. Unfortunately, it isn't just about how much women talk, either; it's also about what you talk about. Sometimes, they might complain about the tone that women use when they speak, too.

So, instead of tiring out his ears with endless ramblings about your day, try to pinpoint the most interesting aspects of it instead and speak as calmly as possible. Men want women who aren't shrill, too.

2. Men want to have sex.

What else do men want? Sex. Yes, another thing that men complain about on a daily basis is the lack of sex in their lives. Although it is true that every day life can get quite busy and it might be hard to squeeze in many intimate moments, you still need to make sure that you actually still have intimate moments overall.

Although men aren't too fond of shelling out a lot of attentiveness and support, they do want to have as healthy a sexual relationship as possible.

3. Men want to be in charge.

In other words, men want to be the men in the relationship. Although men generally don't mind being with ambitious, strong and independent women, some women out there take things a bit too far and unintentionally make their men feel emasculated. And, well, once you attack his manhood, he will end up questioning his masculinity himself.

Now, men know that they aren't perfect, but they would still like their women to admire them. Aside from that, they would also appreciate some support and genuine understanding.

So let him know that you will always be there, no matter how bad things might get. Also, try not to demand all of his time, fuss about his hobbies or tell him which friends he needs to stop hanging out with; otherwise, things could go from bad to worse in no time.

In a nutshell, just make sure you love him well and accept him for who he is. Now that you know what men want, give your man the bit of freedom that he deserves and you are sure to end up in a happy and successful relationship with him.

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How To Text A Girl You Like - When And How Often To Text Her

One of the most important parts of how to text a girl you like is to know when and how often to text her. So, in this article, I'm going to be answering the questions, "How often should you text a girl?", "When to text a girl you just met?" and, "What to do when a woman doesn't respond to your text?"

OK, let's address the first question...

How Often Should You Text A Girl?

First off, let me just say that I know how easy it can be to get all worked up about texting a girl, especially a girl you really like. You get really excited and want to text her every chance you get.

The problem is by being so invested in her you are already on a fast track to needy behavior and this will only push her away. It's important to have the right mindset so that you can keep you cool.

With that being said, the key to texting a girl is not to over do it. You don't want to be texting her all day, everyday. Even if she text you back every single time, it still lowers your value and make it seem like you have nothing better going on in your life.

Now I'm not saying that you should never reply to a girls text right way. You can. Just mix it up a little bit and keep it unpredictable. Sometime wait 10 minutes. Sometime wait an hour. And sometime just leave her hanging.

Let Her Have The Last Text

That's right. When ever possible, you should let her have the last word in the conversation by not replying to her text. By doing this you leave and open loop in her mind and it gets her thinking about you, wondering if you'll text back.

Another good rule is to match or beat her respond time. If it takes her 15 minutes to reply to your text, then you should take 15 minutes (or a few minutes more) to reply to her. Childish? Yes. But it keeps you in control of the interaction and it works to build attraction.

Here's another tip. Don't text a girl between the hours of 8 PM and 1 AM on Friday and Saturday. Why? Because those are going out time for most people and texting her at those hours will make it seem like you don't have anything better to do on the weekends.

When To Text A Girl You Just Met?

There might be some controversy over this, but I think you should send your first text to a girl within 24 hours of you meeting her. If you wait any longer than that, then you risk her losing some of the attraction that she felt for you when you first met.

Also, it's a good way to avoid the awkward, "Who is this?" text back from her.

Ideally, I like to send her a quick, fun text after 5 to 10 minutes from when we just met. It keeps the momentum of the interaction going creates a dynamic where it's natural for us to text each other.

If you worry about this coming off as too eager, don't worry! As long as your text is casual and playful, you won't have this problem. Just follow the guide lines that I've set out in my other articles.

What To Do When A Woman Doesn't Respond To Your Text?

This can happen sometime and it's no big deal. Just don't give up.

Here a good rule to use when a woman doesn't text you back:

If she did text you back, wait a day then text her again. Still no response? Wait two days, then text her back. Still no response? Wait three days, then text her back.

And the important thing to remember is that your text to her should not be needy or angry. In fact, the attitude to take is that you didn't even notice that she didn't text you back and just start the conversation with some random thread.

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