5 Reasons Women Get Out Of The Dating Mood

Women in their late twenties and early thirties are divorced or never married. They go through online dating sites looking for a relationship hoping to find the one to settle down with.

They pick a guy that looks like their type only to get disappointed again. They're frustrated meeting so many losers so they get out of the dating mood.

Although they're young, they worry about their biological clock wanting to have children. Most women in that age group are a serious single looking for someone who wants a relationship too.

There are 5 reasons women get out of the dating mood.

1 - Online Dating Sites - They join these sites in hopes of finding Mr. Right only to find guys that don't want the same thing as them. The guys want to have a good time and use them for fun and sex.

Most are low quality singles that could care less about you. It's a never-ending hunt trying to find a sincere guy who wants to settle down and this is one reason women get out of the dating mood.

2 - Dating Profile - Most online dating profiles are not who the person says they are. They join, look through many profiles and when they see one they like they make their profile match it. They plan it so you'll pick his profile and go out with him and it usually works.

3 - Blind Dates - A friend will set you up on a date with someone you never met. You don't know if you like this person or what they look like. They are the worst when dating. They very seldom work out and are a waste of your time.

4 - Background Checks - The online dating sites are not monitored and they don't run background checks on their members. The software is unreliable matching you with someone totally opposite from who you're looking for. You don't know if you're dating a criminal, rapist or drug user. This is a risky way to date.

5 - Con Artists - With these sites you could get hooked up to a dating con artist. These guys are smart and know how to charm you so you'll trust them letting down your guard giving them the information they want.

They can steal your heart and rob you blind all at the same time before you realize what they've done. After they get what they want, they take off and you never see them again.

Women who date guys from these sites will never find the one. They'll eventually get fed up and get out of the dating mood. A reliable dating service talks to members on the phone and then has them come in to their office.

They give them dating advice, run a background check and screen all members. Most are relationship material and are high quality singles such as yourself.

Get Your Ex Back Advice - What If Your Ex Girlfriend Is Rebounding?

You've found out what you already knew was going to happen and now you don't know how to handle it. You've found out that your ex girlfriend seems to be rebounding back from the break up and it makes you feel like maybe you should do the same thing. The only problem is, you are also feeling as if you want her back, so you are not sure if rebounding is the right thing to do. You are also not sure if the fact that she seems to be dating again means that you have missed the boat and you don't have a shot at winning her back. Yeah, this can be a confusing situation.

Rebounding Is NOT A Bad Thing to Do -

It's not going to be a bad thing for you to do a little rebounding back yourself, especially since you know that this is what your ex girlfriend is doing right now. She is not going to have some double standard where it is perfectly fine for her to do her thing but bad for you to do it as well. And if she does have that double standard, then you probably are better off without her. So, to answer the question of whether or not you should do the same thing and start dating again, the answer is YES. If you are wondering if that is going to sabotage any chance of you being able to win her back, the answer is that most of the time NO, that will not harm your chances. Most of the time.

Your Ex Girlfriend Is Still An Option -

The other thing that you are probably wondering is whether or not you still have a chance with her just because she seems to be doing her thing and rebounding back from the break up and most of the time the answer is that YES, you do still have a chance to get her back. Just not right now. Don't get too disappointed by that, because you may find that it doesn't take long for her to stop dating and start thinking about you again. All you really need to know is that you still have a chance of getting her back and if you are able to do the right things to make her feel like you are the right guy for her, then she probably will come back to you anyway.

No Matter What, You Can't Get Mad At Her -

One other thing that needs to be said is that if you want to have a chance with her again, then you can't get mad at her for rebounding. Like it or not, she is single and she can do what she wants and you can do the same thing. If you do get mad at her for dating now that you and her are broken up, you are going to come across as the bad guy and that is not the position that you want to be in if you want to get her back.

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Dealing With Difficult Conflict: There Is No Opponent There

What does this quotation by Morihei Ueshiba say to you?

"Opponents confront us continually, but actually there is no opponent there."

Morihei Ueshiba, 1883-1969, is the founder of Aikido, the martial art I practice, teach, and use as a metaphor in my work. Aikido -- "The Way of Blending With Energy" -- teaches us to unite with the "opponent's" energy and redirect it, keeping both defender and attacker free from harm and re-establishing harmony.

Dealing With Difficult Conflict

Lately I've had the opportunity to coach and teach about difficult conflict, the kind that's hard on body, mind and spirit, that's a shock to the system and can take time to understand and resolve.

And while I've written many articles about dealing with difficult people, difficult conflict, and suggestions for reclaiming perspective, this question about the opponent deserves a closer look.

There Is No Opponent There

If the quotation is true--there is no opponent there--then why do we continue to fight? Why do we make others the source of the problem? Ueshiba's quote suggests we are fighting something in ourselves, and when we look at that opponent, we will find solutions. For if I cannot change the other, there is only one option left.

Just STOP

Stop doing what isn't working. See a big red STOP sign in front of your face when you begin to react in ways you know don't serve you, have never served you. You don't have to have a backup plan, though it will help. Just STOP what isn't working. Something else--more useful and more intentional--will take its place.

Center Yourself

I've written and taught so long on this foundational life skill, I begin to wonder: "Do you want to hear it again?" I look forward to your comments.

You probably know how: Stop. Breathe. Reconnect with your mind and body. Do it now, when there is no pressure. Remind yourself how easy it is:

• Focus on an internal point about two inches below your belt buckle.
• Breathe into that point.
• Feel your feet on the floor.
• Lengthen your spine and the back of your neck.
• Relax your shoulders, jaw, and facial muscles.
• Feel gratitude for something or someone.

Creating a Backup Plan

Recall a recent argument in which you lost control and replay the tape in your head. See yourself in your mind's eye. What happened just before you lost it? What were you feeling, thinking, hearing? And what happened just before that? Find the juncture where if you'd told yourself to STOP and center--and had actually done that--it would have changed everything.

Possible backup plans:

• Leave. Walk out the door.
• Walk around the block until you're centered and have your self back--your best self.
• Drive safely to a centering location: park; woods; riverbank.
• Call your friend, sister, brother, therapist.
• Sit down with a cup of tea or a glass of lemonade--not drugs or alcohol. Your goal is acknowledging and learning from your emotions, not avoiding or drowning them.

Then What?

Are you thinking, "Now what? What do I do the next day? How do I resolve the conflict? Stopping isn't enough. Centering isn't enough. What if they don't change?"

Stopping and centering are enough.

When you stop and center, you vanquish the inner opponent. That's the only fight you can win. And when you've won that fight, you'll find you have limitless options.

Options such as:

• Talk it through.
• Let it go. When you're centered, you may realize the conflict is really yours. When you stop struggling and resisting what is, the conflict goes away.
• Leave the relationship.
• Cope. If leaving isn't an option you choose right now, change the conversation or find other strategies that will allow you to stay in the relationship, keep your job, or relate respectfully.

When you change, everything changes.

Unlikely Teachers

If we are alive, we will have conflict. And sometimes there isn't an easy answer. But there is power in asking the questions and in looking inward. Difficult people and conflict are teachers in disguise. They invite us to see things about ourselves that we've avoided or ignored.

Conflict knocks on the door until we invite her in. The longer you wait, the harder she knocks.

The theme of conflict as an Unlikely Teacher is the central premise of my book, Unlikely Teachers: Finding the Hidden Gifts in Daily Conflict and my work. Watch for a new story from Unlikely Teachers in each Ki Moments post this spring and summer.

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How to Surely Find Your Perfect Mate

I will give you scientific and philosophical proof of the existence of a perfect mate. You should pay attention to my lessons and care about finding your other half while you are still very young. This way, you won't get involved with the wrong person and lose your real perfect mate in the crowd.

On the other hand, if you are already old but you are alone because you couldn't find the ideal partner in life, you can find your perfect mate now. The same happens if you are divorced and you had many deceptions in your first marriage.

You didn't find your real perfect mate from the beginning. This is why you had a traumatic relationship with the wrong person. However, now you can finally find the right person for you. It's never too late. When you positively transform your personality through dream translation, the unconscious mind helps you discover your soul mate.

You may believe that the idea of finding a perfect mate is based on having unreal expectations. Most people think that they have to get adapted to what they dislike in a relationship and concentrate their attention on what they like in the other person, without looking for perfection. However, this supposedly 'realistic' conclusion is not as logical as it seems to be.

I will give you an example so that you may understand my lessons.

The 'Symposium' is a philosophical text based on dialogues, written by the Greek philosopher Plato. This text is similar to the genesis because it talks about the purpose and nature of love. The 'Symposium' is responsible for the definition of a 'platonic love'.

For Socrates and for Plato, the most correct use of love is to love divinity. The original definition of the platonic love indicates that the person you love makes you pay attention to your spiritual reality. Platonic love is the perfect love, which makes you understand the spiritual dimension of your reality.

Many years later this definition was distorted by the world. Today platonic love is considered the impossible type of love. Platonic love is love from distance, love that never finds completion because it is characterized by the absence of sexual relationships.

This distortion doesn't represent Plato's idea about the perfect love. In the dialogue 'The Symposium', Love is examined in a sequence of speeches by men who attend a symposium, or drinking party. Each man must define the real meaning of Love.

Aristophanes talks about soul mates during the symposium. He explains that humans originally had four arms, four legs, and a single head made of two faces. However, Zeus was afraid of their power. He decided to split them all in half, condemning them to spend their lives searching for the other half to find completion.

This story seems to be based on the philosopher's imagination. However, the truth is that everyone has a soul mate. Plato's story is not a myth. It describes a real fact in a symbolic way.

Thanks to Carl Jung's discoveries about the meaning of dreams, today we have scientific proof that everyone can find their perfect mate. This statement is not based on suppositions that cannot be scientifically proved. This phenomenon is constantly observed into practice.

When you follow dream therapy, you learn how to find your perfect mate. Plato described a big irony. Your perfect mate characterizes your destiny.

When you become a perfect human being because you are following the divine guidance in dreams, you also find your soul mate. This is true.

I found my soul mate in the end of my studies about the meaning of dreams based on Carl Jung's method of dream interpretation. My love story proves that this phenomenon is real.

I couldn't believe that we have a soul mate. I used to think that love at first sight was a myth. However, to my surprise, I saw this phenomenon happening into practice.

I immediately fell in love with a man I had never met before. I knew nothing about him besides a few details. He immediately fell in love with me too, since there is reciprocity between the couple. When you find your perfect mach, this means that your perfect match finds you too. Both of you understand that you love one another because there is a magnetic field uniting you and the person you love.

This is a very strange phenomenon. I had never met my perfect mate before, but I felt as if we had lived together for years, and I could read his mind. I couldn't believe that this experience was real.

I had a dream about this meeting exactly the day before I met this man. I was following dream therapy for four years. At that time, I felt that I was able to finally understand Carl Jung's complicated method of dream interpretation.

This intriguing meeting with my perfect mate and the dream I had predicting this meeting the previous day, gave me the idea to start writing a scientific book in order to prove to the world with my own example that Carl Jung's method of dream interpretation is the only right one. The knowledge we acquire when we translate the meaning of dreams based on Jung's method gives us crucial information about the most important matters of our lives.

There are numerous real stories of people who found their soul mate and lived happily with them. They found the person who loves them as much as they love this person. This person is exactly like them, as if this person belonged to the same mind and body they do.

In other words, your perfect mate seems to be a part of yourself. Your perfect mate looks like you. Both of you have similar physical and psychological characteristics.

Therefore, Plato's definition about the soul mates is true. His definition is a symbolic representation of what happens in our lives.

Aristophanes explains that humans originally had four arms, four legs, and a single head made of two faces. However, Zeus was afraid of their power. He decided to split them all in half, condemning them to spend their lives searching for the other half to find completion.

We can translate the symbolic meaning of this philosophical story the same way we translate the symbolic dream language.

Humans were originally complete. However, they were separated because God was afraid of their powerful evilness.

In order to find their perfect mate and in order to be able to live happily with the special person, humans must eliminate their evilness. In other words, humans must pass through painful experiences in order to be transformed into real human beings.

This is why God condemns them to spend their lives looking for the other half instead of letting them live happily with their perfect mate from the beginning. First of all, human beings must purify their spirit and learn how to be perfect. After transforming their personality, they deserve to find happiness and completion with their soul mate.

This means that the unconscious mind helps you transform your personality in dreams. You find your soul mate and you learn what to do in order to live happily with the person you love. This is not a myth. The unconscious mind has a divine origin and proves God's existence. You should take advantage of my discoveries after continuing Carl Jung's research, and learn how to positively transform your personality. This is how you will deserve living a happy life with your perfect mate.

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How to Deal With Bullies - Part Four - Boundaries

Welcome to Part Four in our series of How to Deal With Bullies entitled Boundaries. Boundaries is where we draw a line in the sand in our relationships and we deal directly with anyone who crosses it.

All of us need to set boundaries in our relationships. If we don't, people will walk all over us. Have you ever seen someone in a relationship where the other person is in complete control? Most of us have. Maybe you have been controlled by someone or you have controlled someone. That is unhealthy plain and simple. It is bullying.

You see this everywhere. Husbands, wives, parents, children, boyfriends, girlfriends, friends, schoolmates, and also in the workplace with bosses, employers, employees and co-workers.

Let me give you a few examples. A husband coming home and displaying irritation or even belittling his wife if the dinner isn't ready or the house isn't clean. Parents may intimidate, bully or try to control their children to get them to do chores or to behave. I have seen children rule the house and parents let them get away with whatever they want. Kids not eating what is set before them or asking for something again and again until their parents cave in to their wishes. Boyfriends keeping girlfriends from seeing their friends or family. Schoolmates picking on and intimidating others. How about the workplace? I was so close to punching my foreman about 20 years ago for his constant yelling at me and other employees. He was twice my size and I didn't know karate back then, but I would have at least thrown one good punch before he pummeled me. Maybe there is sexual harassment in the office taking place.

In all of the above examples boundaries need to be set. If boundaries are not established, one of two things will happen. Either the bullying and controlling will continue and often get worse or the one being bullied will one day explode. This is when someone shows up with a gun and starts shooting.

OK, now that we see where lines are crossed, let's set some boundaries. The first, foremost and primary boundary everyone should set is the word NO. No means no. Let me say that again. NO means NO! How do we apply this? Anytime when someone does something that makes you feel uncomfortable, you need to vocalize that. Sometimes people will do things intentionally to make you feel uncomfortable just to test your reaction and see if they can go further. Other times it may simply be ignorance on their part about how it makes you feel and a simple no is sufficient to stop the situation. In either case, set the boundary of no and stand your ground.

Husbands and wives need to love, respect and honor each other, not control or belittle. Parents need to establish rules in the house that are clear for their children to follow. Friends and schoolmates - respect each other and stand up for each other. In the workplace, check your company's policy (if they have one) for how to properly handle workplace relationship conflicts.

Stand up for yourself. Have confidence. Set your boundaries.

Interracial Love, Dating and Getting Permission From Your Parents

True story.

I came across a Google alert for interracial dating the other day and found people getting crazy about a rule they read in a student handbook from a christian college and I quote:

Interracial dating must be approved in writing and verbally by the parents of both students.

You can imagine the conversation running rampant in the comments over this.

I did a little research and found that it is private college so if you are willing to pay to be in this environment, you probably will have no problem with this rule or any of the other rules which may be difficult for a lot of people to understand.

Permission from your parents to date someone outside of your race is a real surrender of power. And at the heart of interracial dating is a power struggle that has existed since forever and especially in power structures like organized religion.

Let's see what we have to deal with:

• how to achieve everlasting life
• a male dominated authority
• celibacy
• science as heresy
• how to deal with sexuality and the material world
• who gets to be a saint

All this gets in the way of a date?

Let's talk about Mary

Mary who?

Good question.

There are several Marys - not least, of course, Mary the mother of Jesus.

Then there is Mary of Bethany, sister of Martha and Lazarus.

Mary, the mother of James and Joseph, and Mary the wife of Clopas. Equally important, there are three unnamed women who are expressly identified as sexual sinners-the woman with a "bad name" who wipes Jesus' feet with ointment as a signal of repentance, a Samaritan woman whom Jesus meets at a well and an adulteress. Jesus' attitude toward women with sexual histories was one of the things that set him apart from other teachers of the time.

He is remembered as treating women with respect, as equals in his circle; not only did he refuse to reduce them to their sexuality; Jesus was a man who loved women, and whom women loved.

Remember the rock opera Jesus Christ Superstar, where Mary Magdalene sings, "I don't know how to love him... He's just a man, and I've had so many men before... I want him so. I love him so." The story has timeless appeal, first, because that problem of "how" - whether love should be erotic or platonic; sensual or spiritual; a matter of longing or consummation-defines the human condition. What makes the conflict universal is the dual experience of sex: the necessary means of reproduction and the madness of passionate encounter.

For women, the struggle is maternal/erotic, a tension that men can be reduced to the Madonna/whore opposites fantasy.

Mary was a trusted apostle of Jesus, and that was a major obstacle to establishing that male dominance, which is why, her image had to be recast as one of subservience. The dominance of males established itself in the church of the "Fathers," and the Gospel of Mary was one of the texts shunted aside in the fourth century. Thus Mary of Magdala, who began as a powerful woman at Jesus' side, "became," "the redeemed whore and Christianity's model of repentance, a manageable, controllable figure, and effective weapon and instrument of propaganda against her own sex."

Let's take a closer look at what actually happened with Mary, shall we?

There was a harnessing of sexual restlessness to her image. There was the humane appeal of forgiveness and redemption. But what most drove the anti-sexual sexualizing of Mary Magdalene was the male need to dominate women.

In the Church, as elsewhere, that need is still being met.

And these are the real power struggles behind your interracial date.

So here's what I would say to your parents:

1. Man was originally created in the image and likeness of God; I am going out on a date with someone who was created in the image and likeness of God.

2. Jesus Christ was conceived by the Holy Spirit and born of the Virgin Mary. See what happens when you date outside your species?

3. There is one God, who is infinitely perfect, existing eternally in three persons. How do you expect to get three people to agree on anything?

Stay strong in your belief in your choice to be with another human being.

Moving On, Letting Go Of A Bad Relationship

Knowing when to end a bad relationship can be difficult. The longer you wait, the harder it gets to move on. For some, staying in a bad relationship is better than being single. Unfortunately, this usually leads to more problems and anxiety. If you are in a bad relationship, recognize that it is time to assess your situation and think about what is best for you and your well-being. If you cannot be happy, you cannot make anyone else happy and vice verse. It may be difficult but in the end you might discover a whole new you and a better environment.

So what can you do to get over a relationship that you have invested so much into?

Here are 10 steps to make you better:

1. Make the decision to choose you and commit to making your life better.

2. Get to know your family and friends better. Maybe your old relationship did not allow for quality time with the people who really care about you.

3. It is a good time to look at what you really value and believe in since you might have some quality time to spend with you.

4. Time to take advantage of things you wanted to do but put off in your old relationship.

5. Discover your true needs and satisfy them.

6. It is a great time to become the person you always wanted to be and you might even find similar people attracted to you.

7. Learn about the true characteristics you want in a partner and maybe the discovery will lead to a treasure.

8. Once you know what you are looking for, go out and enjoy this wonderful opportunity.

9. It is a great time to meet and uncover some new, potential friends which could turn out to be a lot of fun and maybe lead to something more as time moves on.

10. Discover that life is filled with bumps and eventually, those bumps get paved and becomes a smooth trip. So, enjoy the drive, enjoy the view, and you will get to your destination in life.

These ten steps are a good way to help you to positively move on. In some cases, when it seems more difficult to gain back your overall balance, having an expert professional life coach to put the main focus back on you is a terrific way to regaining your power and making you the champion of your own life.

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What You Need to Know About Tao of Badass Review

If you are having difficulty attracting women, this may be the self-help guide which will help you get the woman of your dreams. You might also be at the point of giving up on dating because you can't understand why women keep rejecting you. Dating Coach Joshua Pellicer lays out in his video ways and tips that men can follow to get the girl he wants. Tao of Badass Review shares secrets in his videos that attract men to buying it; after all, a few bills to learn how to attract women is money worth spent. Learn more about what is in it for you by reading below.

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Approaching a Woman - 3 Easy to Follow Tips

Truth be told, you are definitely not alone if you feel like it can be tough to work yourself up to approach a woman you find attractive. If I had a nickel for every time that I heard a guy complain about having to make the approach... I'd have a LOT of nickels. The thing is, you do know that you need to be able to approach a woman no matter what it is that you might be feeling. Trying to do well with women without walking over and starting conversations is kind of like hoping that some magical force is going to suddenly work in your favor. We know that's not happening anytime soon, so you might as well figure out what to do to approach women you are attracted to.

Here are 3 easy to follow tips that should be useful to you:

1) The warmer and friendlier you are when you approach a woman, the warmer and friendlier she will be with you.

Every once in a wile you might walk up to a woman and find that no matter how warm and friendly you are that she is just frigid and cold but that is really rare. Most of the time when you are warm and friendly and you don't seem like a guy who is desperate to pick up a woman, you'll get a good response if you just walk up and say hi and start a conversation that has a little bit of direction.

2) The more times you walk up to a woman you don't know, the easier it will start to become for you.

Making cold approaches when you first start out can be a weird experience and it can feel a little awkward or uncomfortable, but that does not mean that it is going to stay that way. Just like with most things, the more you do it, the easier it will come to you. And eventually you won't think it is a big deal at all to walk up to a woman you don't know and you'll be able to get her talking to you pretty easily.

3) People read vibes off your body language, so make sure that it seems like you are at ease.

A lot of women try and judge a guy by the vibe that they get from him and if you don't seem like you are at ease and your body language is suggesting that you are not, then you are more likely to send out a bad vibe. On the other hand, if you seem to be at ease and relaxed, chances are good she will feel the same way and get a good vibe from you.

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DIY Wedding 4: T Minus 8 Months, Continued

Eight months out from your wedding there's a lot to do! While you're registering for gifts, researching and booking entertainment, and booking photographers, you'll also need to meet with caterers, assuming that your venue does not provide on site catering. Just as you wouldn't hire a DJ or a band without hearing them, you surely wouldn't hire a caterer without tasting the food. This means you have to attend multiple tastings while still maintaining some semblance of a reasonable eating plan. Remember, you're also going to be shopping for a wedding dress this month! When you find a caterer you like, go ahead and hire them this month if possible, or early next month. Just like all the other good wedding services, they tend to get snapped up pretty far in advance. Once again, at this point it's not so much about specifics. You don't have to know your menu (unless you have some particularly exotic cuisine or fusion theme that you're dead set on, then it helps to at least know the flavor profiles you want the chef to be familiar with), but you want to know that the caterer is familiar with the ingredients that you hope to see in in your wedding feast. If you're vegan or have other special dietary requirements, you'll want to make that clear to the caterer and make sure they can work within those strictures early on, as well.

If you're expecting out of town guests, research hotels close to your venue and reserve a block of rooms at a couple of options in different price ranges. Contact the hotels you're interested in, explain to them the reason you're interested in reserving a block of rooms, and inquire as to whether there's a discount for reserving multiple rooms far in advance. Don't be afraid to play the "gosh we're just so excited about getting married and we really want our guests coming from Piddletydink, Iowa to have a wonderful time, on an okay-time budget" card. Ask to speak to a manager, particularly if you're looking to book a large number of rooms. If your wedding is a smaller event or you don't have as many out of town guests coming, look to see if there's a smaller hotel or bed and breakfast option where more personal service might be available. Speaking directly to an owner/innkeeper and telling the sweet story of your engagement might net you a discount with a sole proprietor where the manager of the Hampton Inn would have neither the authority nor the desire to help you out. Smaller B&B locations can also be a great place to host a Bridesmaids' Luncheon or other event, and doubling up the events can net you a discount, as well.

When you launch your wedding website this month, you'll put the information for all the accommodation options there for your guests to choose from. If reserving a block of rooms in advance is not in the cards for you, at least contact local hotels in advance and find out what options are available so that you can have the info available for your out of town guests instead of making them do their own homework. If there are other local events going on in your area that conflict with your wedding date and make rooms hard to come by, make sure to let out of town guests know to reserve rooms early so they won't be left with no place to stay!

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Has Feminist Movement Gone Haywire?

Feminism initially started as a movement to secure social justice for women. Its purpose was to secure political, economic and social rights for women; besides better opportunities for women in education and employment. It aimed at correcting cultural wrongs done to women due to spontaneously acquired false cultural notions about women and unjustifiably committing women to various cultural traditions. It also aimed to correct women's drift to weaker position in the survival struggle, caused by biological and behavioral differences between the two genders. Feminist movement fought for special rights for women under the pretext of gender equality. Feminists vehemently tried to secure their ends, out rightly ignoring finer aspects of spontaneous male female relationship and its familial and social aspects.

Margret Cavendish, Duchess of Newcastle-upon-Tyne of 17th century was among the earliest feminist writers. In 18th century Jeremy Bentham - a male, said that it was the placing of women in a legally inferior position that made him choose the career of a reformist at the age of 11. Bentham spoke of complete equality between sexes. He advocated women's right to vote and participate in government. He opposed different sexual moral standards to women and men. Marquis de Condorcet, another 18th century philosopher was a fierce defender of equal rights for women.

A Vindication of the Rights of Women (1792) by Mary Wollstonecraft is one of the first works that can unambiguously be called feminist. For many Commentators, Wollstonecraft represents the first codification of "equality" feminism, a refusal of the feminine. But a refusal of the feminine impliedly meant, refusal of natural, healthy male female relationship. This amounted to advocating over correction of the cultural wrong done to women. This eventually inspired gender clash instead of gender harmony.

But what may be appreciated here is that even in the so-called male dominated society, it is the men who championed women's cause seeking balanced and just male female relationship based on mutual respect, equality but at the same time taking care of natural differences between men and women. All over the world, it is the male dominated legislatures that have granted special rights or legal privileges to women in order to support them in the event of survival struggle or gender clash.

Once, I searched the net for men's rights and I found that none of the countries in the world have granted any special privileges or legal rights to men in order to protect their interest or to support them in the event of gender clash. Only in the matter of sexuality and reproductive function, consent of the spouse needs to be taken before a woman undertakes any therapeutic procedure affecting mutual interest. On the contrary women have been conferred a large number of legally protected interests or rights.

Therefore, women blaming male dominated society for all their ills are totally unfounded in their allegations. Whatever grudges they have against men spring from their natural dependence on men. All that they now want to have through feminist movement is to have dominant relationship, autonomy without being responsible, unlimited freedom, reckless individualism and even freedom from their biological role. Slut walks all over the world demonstrate women's craving for reducing their sexuality to mere entertainment. Pro- abortion movements demonstrate the same. They want total control of their body oblivious of their role, responsibilities and interests of all those who matter.

Majority among men have always tended to respect, protect and provide for women. As exception, minority of men have deplorable tendency to indulge in sexual violence against women, quite often on provocation of some kind. No society has ever defended such acts against women.

Males normally seek companionship as opposed to domination in male female relationship. Males normally assign the toughest of responsibilities to themselves and discharge the same to the best satisfaction of various interests. Society has never appreciated men who have betrayed themselves from this path. This has been essential to keep familial and social integrity. So, all the men can't be blamed, for acts of minority.

Throughout its history, except in inception, feminism has never sought balanced and just relationship with men. It is the will to dominate, individualism, unlimited personal freedom, feminine whims, fancies and fantasies and the desire to live up to them that has been deriving the feminist movement.

The whole notion of gender equality is incorrect because nature has not only made both genders unequal but has also granted them different roles and responsibilities. Men are naturally more comfortable doing certain things and the same is true for women. This has led to physical and mental inequities. Accordingly notion of role and responsibilities or division of labor has evolved in human society accounting for evolution of family culture and social culture as it is seen today. This also led to unfair cultural fixations contrary to feminine interests which need to be corrected and hence the feminist movement. But today feminist movement has turned into a class war between men and women. Home makers are fast emerging as home breakers leading to social disintegration. Nuclear families have become order of the day and old age homes have sprouted in numbers.

Women intoxicated by wave of feminism want to enjoy all the individual freedom but want to neither share nor discharge their social responsibilities. They want unconstrained freedom that allows them to live according to their fantasies oblivious of rights of others. They want autonomy literally amounting to monstrosity. I have come across a woman author who advocates women's rights to wear short clothes in public even if it is provocative for young boys but at the same time demands boys to behave responsibly. They do not even want to take consent of their partner in matters affecting both. They argue for total control of their physical body as if they exist in vacuum totally unconnected to any other soul on planet Earth. Instead of feeling guilty about their unjustifiable, illegitimate demands; they doggedly pursue their agenda to their selfish ends.

Therefore, over a period of time women who were once depraved and oppressed have now turned into oppressor. So the time has come to talk about men's rights or male legal privileges.

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Getting Past Your Breakup

Getting past a breakup is probably one of the easiest things to do as long as you are determined to do it. Many women have problems in dealing with breakups since they think that relationships last forever. Many women have the notion that life can be like a fairy tale where everyone is happy and the prince always marries the princess. In reality, life is not a fairy tale and not all relationships end happily ever after.

Your Life Has Just Begun
To past your breakup, you need to remember that the romance that you once had with your lover is not based on some romantic novel. You have your own life ahead of you and you will eventually be able to meet someone new and more suitable for you. Remember that you should never be too hard on yourself and you should remember that once a breakup has happened, it is not the end of the world. You only need to accept that you are not meant for each other and that there are plenty of fish in the sea. You can sulk in front of the television and eat ice cream for a few days but eventually you need to move on with your life.

Start dating
The next step in getting past a breakup is to start dating again. Most of the time you only need to know that there are more men out there and there are millions who are single just like you. You need to hang out with friends in order to forget your sad experience and start dating again. If you continue to sulk and never give any other guys a chance then you'll end up alone and unmarried. It is better to take a chance and to love rather than to not love at all. However, if you plan to start dating then you need to be certain that the man you want to be with likes you for who you are.

Changing your Look and Attitude
You should not have to change the way you look for other people to like you. However, a new hairdo or a new wardrobe can give you a new perspective on things and help you move on. Once you change your look, you'll likely notice that your attitude towards life and what it has to offer will start to turn for the better.

Base your Relationships on Reality
The last part in getting past your breakup is to remember that fantasy and reality are two different things. You need to be aware that someday you will find your next lover and you might be happier than ever before with him. Remember that your relationship is based on reality and that love often changes even if we do not want it to. You need to have realistic expectations.

Text Your Ex Boyfriend Back - The Team Plan Vs The Solo Plan

If you just went through a breakup, then you might be wondering if you can text your ex boyfriend back and get him back in your arms soon. While thinking about doing this, you might wonder whether it would be best to get your girl friends together and work as a team to text your ex boyfriend back or to try and do things on your own. Which way would really be best? Read on.

The Team Plan

If you want to text your ex boyfriend back, you might want to get your girl friends together and talk about your breakup. You might ask them for advice that can help you get your ex back in the future, as well. Naturally, being such good friends, they will probably offer up a slew of advice for you, some of which will just be downright crazy, while others may sound sensible.

See, although running to your girl friends for help might seem like a good idea in your head, it really isn't if you think about it - most of all if your girl friends are also friends with your ex. For starters, they might feel like they are caught in the middle because they want to help you out, but don't want to get on your ex's bad side at the same time.

Aside from that, if some of them are better friends with your ex, there are chances that he will know exactly what you are doing and thus avoid you altogether, too. He might end up resenting and losing respect for you, as well.

The Solo Plan

So, if you really want to text your ex boyfriend back as quickly as possible, it would be best to just work on your own. If you want to succeed, all you really have to do is learn how to text full advantage of texts. Here are some tips to help you out.:

• Only send your ex positive text messages, so that he doesn't get annoyed whenever he receives a text from you.

• Always be happy and cheerful in your texts, so that you can pass positive vibes back onto him.

• Keep your text messages light, so he doesn't feel pressured to reply to you.

• Do not mention the past or your old relationship in any way to keep the positive vibes going.

• Do not text him too much; otherwise, you will look clingy and desperate.

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Words to Attract Beautiful Women

Attracting women is easy and through proper research, observation and practice you will have women calling you all the time. It can be done by use of both verbal and non verbal methods. By combining both of these factors you will have a higher chance of getting the girl of your dreams.

The use of words is very effective in picking up women. There are no specific set of words that can magically attract women to you. It is all about the delivery of the words. This means how you say the words, and what you say.

Non verbal in this case refers to your body language. This is very important and will play a big role in attracting her. Your body language will tell a lot about you and can be used to make a good first impression.

You should approach her with confidence. Women love guys who are confident. This can be shown by both your body language and your words. Your approach is the first step towards getting her. Once you have established that you are a confident guy, she will consider what you have to say as important.

You should watch what you say so that she does not get the wrong idea. Putting your statements in an intelligent way also works. You can communicate something without actually saying it directly. This will help especially when you want to tell her something and not seem like you are bragging.

Good conversational skills make it easier for you to be able to relate and make a connection with her. You should talk a little bit about yourself before shifting the conversation to be about her. It is advisable not to ask her the common and boring questions. Instead lead her to what you want to talk about. Listening is also important. Listen to what she has to say. Women love men who listen.

You should compliment her. The compliment should sound genuine and should be unique. It should be on something above her neckline. Teasing her and the use of humor also works. When teasing her you should, however, be careful so that it does not come off as if you are being rude. Hot women are not used to being teased hence it will make you different from other guys. Women also love guys who can make them laugh. If you manage to achieve this through the use of words then you are half way there.

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Being Single in a Relationship

In a relationship one of the first mistakes people make, is in depending on the other to an unrealistic extreme. People repeatedly wonder where they went wrong once they realize that they fear the loss of their partner only because of the fear of being alone, and/or when they lost their ability to be independent of another. Unless you were born a twin, or were forced to be very dependent on someone throughout your life, being alone is one of the most natural ways of being. A relationship should not be about surviving on your partners air that they breathe. It should however be about allowing that person to breathe along with you in your space, vice-verse.

We can be single in a relationship, single in the sense of continuing to be you. I am not talking about being selfish when I speak of being single, I am talking about being your own person first. Being single in a relationship, is also the sense of knowing full well that even if there are days, months, even a lifetime that you will not be able to spend with that certain someone, that you will survive and be happy within yourself. This is not to say that, people do not miss a partner that they have lost, or the happiness that they have shared. Being single in a relationship means being dependent on you because at the end of the day... it is only you in reality.

People tend to depend on their partners to make them happy, and/or to make their day a good day. This is another mistake made repeatedly in relationships. It is utterly impossible for one person to make another happy unless that person wants to be happy first. A single-minded person chooses to be happy before they expect another to make them happy. A single-minded person can sleep in a separate bedroom and not feel in any way, that it will make or break their relationship. When we are new to a relationship, we genuinely lose ourselves in our partners. This is a time when we must be very aware of how easily we can lose our independence. Our independence gives us a certain strength which is vital to our ability to continue to grow in a healthy and balanced direction, which in turn creates a healthy and happy partner. I have met many people that seem to think they need to constantly be around others, which for many of those, that same need has played havoc on their relationships. In not realizing that it is because they do not think independently or choose to not think independently, they have allowed that fear of being alone to control them. Our thoughts do very much control our destiny.

A relationship can only be successful when the partners involved are there out of true commitment and choice and not out of a dependency on the other.

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Guys Decoded: How To Tell He's Into You

Back in the caveman days, it was simple to know if a guy liked you; if he grabbed you and took you back to his cave, things were pretty clear! But ever since we've become more civilized, it's become more difficult for women to tell whether or not a man was interested.

It seems like attraction should be one of the easiest things in the world, but sometimes it's just not easy to tell if you're reading the signs correctly. In that case, here are 5 tips we've gathered; signals that should let you know if he's got a thing for you.

1. He Brings You Unexpected Gifts

This is one of the top giveaways that a guy has feelings for you. If he suddenly brings you an unexpected gift, you know that you've been on his mind and he'd probably like to be more than friends.

Giving someone a gift is a very personal act; it's not something normally done for just anyone. Gifts are something we give to the people who are important to us. If a guy gives you a present of some sort - especially an expensive one - you can take that as a sign that he's thinking of you in a special way.

2. He Teases You But Not Other Girls

When a guy teases a girl, odds are that he likes her. For many guys, teasing is a form of flirting. If she responds favorably, great; if not, well then he can say he was "just teasing."

It's an especially strong sign if he teases you a lot, but rarely teases other girls. If that is the case, then it's a pretty sure sign of his interest in you.

3. He Smiles A Lot When You're Together

If you've ever had a big crush on someone, you know how it brings a giant smile to your face every time they come around.

If a guy like you, then he'll probably get that same big smile whenever you come near; it's a sure sign that the sight of you makes him happy.

There's a difference between the normal polite smiles that people share when they pass in the halls and the smile of genuine happiness that you'll see on the face of someone truly pleased to see you.

4. He Will Do Things To Impress You

If a guy is interested in you, he's going to do whatever he can to make sure that the interest is mutual. This means he'll do things to try and impress you; to try and prove that he's the man you should want to be with.

He may boast about his great job with a good company so that you'll know he can afford to provide a good life for you; it's the same reason some men like to show off an expensive car or home.

Other guys will try to show off their prowess in sports, as a show of strength is another (subconscious) way of showing you that he is able to take care of you. However he does it, it's a sign that he is trying to convince you that he's your man!

5. He Emails Or Calls You Frequently

Does he text you often or leave lots of messages on your Facebook page? That's a great way to know that he's really interested in you.

People will often text you or leave you a message when there's actually something to say or share - but if a guy's interested in you, he'll text, email, or call frequently, just to find out what you're doing or to say "Hi." It's a sure sign that he's interested in you!

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Why Online Dating Is Great For Social Anxiety Sufferers

Do you find it hard to walk up to someone to ask them out? Do you have trouble socializing in general? If you suffer from social anxiety, you might find online dating a much easier way to meet someone. Dating is very difficult for people when they lack the ability to initiate conversations and meet new people. With online dating, you can meet new people from the comfort of home and sending an online message is much easier than walking up to someone at the grocery store or dog park.

The Official Meeting

Dating is all about connecting. In order to connect with someone, you must first meet them and then you must attempt to get to know them a little better. This is what dating is intended to do: it provides you and that special someone with time alone so you can talk and get to know one another a little more intimately. If you don't meet, you can't date. This is the prime reason why online dating is perfect for social anxiety sufferers.

With online dating, you're provided with a pool of eligible singles. If you like someone, it's much easier to push send on a short message than it is to muster up the courage to approach someone in person. You can be yourself and if you are rejected, so what? It's just an online dating profile that rejected you. You simply move on to the next and the next until you find a viable match.

Initial Communication

Beyond the first meeting, two people need to be able to communicate if they hope for the relationship to progress into something more meaningful. If the person with anxiety can't seem to get a few sentences out without stumbling, this initial communication becomes difficult. By initial communication, we're talking the conversations that usually occur before the two decide to go out on a first date.

Typically, a person will get a phone number and that initial communication will happen over the phone. If you have social anxiety, getting the phone number may prove difficult enough. Then you have to call the person. It just becomes too much.

With online dating, you can communicate with the person via instant message until you are comfortable enough to take the relationship to the phone or to the offline date. With online dating, you can work completely within your comfort level, and that's why all social anxiety sufferers should turn to online dating if they hope to meet someone without going through too much emotional turmoil.

Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back by Avoiding the Following Texting Mistakes

Breakups have got to be some of the hardest things people have to go experience in life. If you just recently got dumped by your ex boyfriend, you might be in this state wherein you're trying to think of ways to fix things and get your ex boyfriend back. If you really want to learn how to get your ex boyfriend back, you have to master the right skills. Believe it or not, you can make him fall in love with you all over again and you can do it through text.

If you are just like any other typical woman, you might have been texting him incessantly in the hope that this would make him want to get back with you. This is a wrong state of mind, though. Texting him 24/7 won't get you what you want. Your incessant texting just might make him run away from you.

Constantly texting him will make you look clingy and immature, too. Men don't like women like that and if you come off as such, he'll like you less and less. But, still, you can use text messages to your advantage and get your ex boyfriend back - just not in the way you think you should.

So, how do you use text messages to your advantage? Simple: don't use them at all. This may sound odd to you, but it's the right thing to do. Live normally and go text other people. You can text everyone and anyone, just not your ex boyfriend. You have to show him that you are capable of living without him in your life. The nonchalance you'll exude will draw out his curiosity. He'll end up wondering what you have been up to and what's keeping you busy now that he's gone.

Remember: men want what they can't have. Use this knowledge and use it to draw him closer towards you. Let him wonder about you. Let him miss you. Let him run after you. But don't give in just yet. Wait it out a bit and let things cool down first, since you just recently broke up.

This doesn't mean that you aren't supposed to text to get your ex boyfriend back again, though. Just wait for a few weeks or maybe even a month. After that, you can start texting him using certain text message strategies to get him where you want him to be. But before taking this route, you have to make sure you've got him interested in you again.

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How To Get A Girl - How Do I Find A Girl?

How do I find a girl? That is probably the most common question ever asked by any man who wants to get a girlfriend. No one wants to be alone and the hardest part always seems to be finding someone. Where to go, what to do, what to say. There is a lot to getting a girl, and you need to know it all if you want to find a girl.

Where do I go? The answer to this question is easy, anywhere. Always be ready to find a girl, you never know when or how you'll meet her. It could be at the gas station, or at the mall, anywhere. You have to realize that you are being checked out, and judged, everywhere you go. You always have to be ready!

What do I do? This question is a little more complicated. You have to show her that you are a strong and confident man. That you are used to just walking up and having conversations with women that you find attractive. This is hard to do but if you want to find a girl you will have to practice it constantly. With enough practice it will soon become second nature to you and you will start to become the strong and confident man who most women find attractive.

What to say? Again this is an easy answer, anything! It doesn't matter what you say, it matters how you say it. Your conversations with women need to be fun! Say a few jokes, maybe some quotes from your favorite movies, anything that will make you laugh. Laughing will show her that you are having a great time talking to her and that its okay for her to have a great time talking to you!

Do not get all nervous talking with women, you are just having a fun conversation with them remember? There is no fear of rejection because at this point you are not trying to go out with them. There are signs she will give you if she is interested in anything more than having a conversation with you, so watch for those but otherwise just have some fun!

To find a girl all you have to do is keep your cool, keep your eyes open, and be ready for when you meet her. Remember to always practice your conversation skills with any woman who you find attractive. Do not be nervous, women will sense that you are uncomfortable and think that you are not worth their effort.

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3 Steps on How To Fix A Broken Relationship

Broken relationships can be a huge burden on someone's emotional wellbeing. If you are a man or woman suffering from such a relationship you know very well the heartache and pain involved with such a situation. There are many reasons a relationship ends up being broken, and these situations don't discriminate. These types of issues can happen to men and woman that are just getting serious with the relationship all the way up to couples who have been married for years. A lot of people in broken relationships don't want the relationship to end, but thinks the situation is impossible to fix. I want to let you know that even though your feelings are normal, your situation is not impossible to fix. I want to show you how to fix your relationship.

There are many reasons a relationship can become broken. Problems in relationships can stem from simple arguments, financial problems, insecurities, and many more. There are 3 important steps to take in order to fix a broken relationship.

Step 1: Identify

Step 2: Communication

Step 3 Forgiveness

The first step to fixing a relationship is to identify why your having problems in the first place. Do the problems you are having because of something you did or didn't do? Do the issues deal with finances or maybe insecurities you or the people you're in the relationship have? Whatever the issue is you first need to identify what is causing the problem.

The second step to fixing your broken relationship is communication. Communication is the key to a healthy relationship. People are raised differently growing up, and have different life experiences, so of course there are going to be arguments between two people in a relationship. Now to avoid a broken relationship or to fix one for that matter, you need to know how to communicate effectively. In order to communicate effectively you need to listen to the other person and stay calm and patient. You can't communicate effectively if you are going off on the other person yelling, calling names, and saying hurtful things. You will only cause more damage to the relationship. If you aren't able to stay calm right now take a break and come back when you can communicate more effectively.

The last step on how to fix a broken relationship is forgiveness. If you've really messed things up no matter what it is you need to own up to it. Everyone makes mistakes, so if you made one don't try to point the blame elsewhere. Just own your mistake, give a sincere apology and ask for forgiveness for that mistake. If you created a huge mistake and the other person in the relationship can't forgive you after you asked right away, just give them a little time. At least you gave them a sincere apology and asked for forgiveness. You did your part now the ball is in their court. But you will feel much better when you take that step to forgiveness, and it will help you fix your broken relationship.

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How Do I Know He Is What I Need?

Relationships are prized quite high in the spiritual realm. I say this because relationships either bring out our best or worst personalities. It is therefore always important to be mindful of who we associate with, and what they bring into our lives. Always.

There is a difference between patience and wasting time. We know what situation we are in, regardless of whether we are willing to admit this to ourselves or not. The question is what to do with our realizations.

There is a lot of joy found in giving, and giving without expecting reward or action in kind. There is however a lot of grief in giving to someone who not only takes, but makes it quite clear that he is not interested in reciprocating pure gifts. We have to be careful about what we give, and to whom.

Terrible experiences are not meant to define our self-worth, they are there to teach us. If we are still able to hold our heads high, check our dream of companionship and find it still intact, then nothing was lost. In time, we see how great it actually was that some relationships did not work out. Sometimes, we see how we dropped the ball, and can decide what to do with the lesson the next time.

If we are meant to get married, please believe me when I say that no amount of bad experience or words will take that away from us. If God has intended a union, it will be done. The question is how willing we are to work on ourselves in the interim. This is very important.

The man who steps in beside you while you are busy doing you, is the one who is meant for you. To get the best, ensure that you are doing your best with what you need to do for you. In this sense, you are not waiting for someone to complete you, rather, you will find a companion to walk beside you, as you continue on your journey called life.

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Top Ten Signs He Might Be Mr Wrong

I hear it all the time, "How did I miss the signs?" At the end of a relationship hindsight is 20/20. It's not because you were stupid. It's because falling in love causes temporary insanity, literally. So how's a girl to know?

Top ten signs he might be Mr. Wrong.

1. Your friends and family don't like him. Like it or not, they are usually a pretty good judge of what will work for you. If you are consistently getting the thumbs down, think twice.


2. Your friends and family notice you are different when you're around him. You may not notice it, but if you aren't comfortable to be yourself when you're around him, that's saying something about long term potential.


3. He wasn't honest on his profile. If he fudged his online dating profile that most likely means he isn't comfortable with who is he or where he's at. You want a man who knows himself and isn't afraid to be who he is.


4. He tells you upfront he isn't ready to commit. Men will do this a lot and women will tend to ignore it. Proceed at your own peril.


5. He has another life that you only get to hear about. He has friends you don't meet and goes places with people you don't know, often. That doesn't mean he's hiding things from you, but it does mean he's keeping you on the outside of his real life.


6. He doesn't have other close relationships in his life. He isn't close to his family. He doesn't have close friends. This is quite possibly a guy who doesn't value intimate relationships.


7. He talks sh*t about his ex. Sure, someday you're going to hear his story, but a gentleman is just that, gentlemanly. Talking bad about the ex isn't.


8. He doesn't take no for an answer about anything. He wants it his way. He pushes you to get it. He won't stop and you won't like where that takes you.


9. He's quick to get angry. He might be just as quick to get over it. However, buyer beware with a guy has flashes of anger. Grown men you want to play with have learned to control their tempers.


10. You feel it in your gut and you don't know why.

There is no higher source of wisdom than your intuition. If your gut says it's time to go, go. Period. No excuses needed.

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Mending A Broken Heart

Most people find it hard to return to normal life after experiencing a broken engagement or an unhappy romance. The hurt that has established in them is so humiliating that in order to stay away from it they often throw themselves wildly into work and other things that will keep them very busy. Others become chain-smokers, and drink heavily, and even go into drugs. Because they feel inadequate, these people tend to stay away from parties or any other social gatherings which involve meeting other people, especially of the opposite sex. This negative attitude tends to retard the return of a state of mind which makes happiness or contentment possible.

Usually, when a woman has loved a man so much, she will have avoided other male friendships and often seen less of her female friends. Same is also true with men. This kind of faithfulness is one of the whole-hearted attributes of a person in love, but when it comes to picking himself or herself up out of a broken relationship, it does make life more difficult. There are also persons who, after a break-up, become successful in their studies, career, or even in business. But, the truth remains that the hurt is still inside that needs to be cured in order to free themselves from the sad past, or else they will be a captive of it for as long as it exist.

The important thing to remember at this point is that if a person were attractive, charming, and interesting enough in the first place to attract love, then it is very likely that he or she will be so again. If a person sees himself or herself looking a mess, and feeling thoroughly lacking in heart, this is probably because emotional turmoil has taken its toll. But, definitely, good looks, good health, and happiness will eventually return. When a person sees that no one else is showing him or her tender loving care, then it is the time to lavish it on himself or herself. This signifies the start of the process of rejoining life with confidence, with something to offer in the shape of a charming and happy appearance.

After the process of restoring self-confidence, which every person needs to a greater or lesser extent when he or she has been hit by any kind of ego-destroying experience, the appropriate time has come for him or her to plan his or her social life. This is a preparation to an eventual return to normal life. But, to meet a new love straight away cannot be expected at once. It is better for a person to just concentrate on making himself or herself as pleasant as possible to the world at large. The primary aim here is to make friends. The more friends he or she has, the more likely he or she is to meet the good and kind person of his or her dreams, somewhere, sometime. He or she should not worry too much about where and when. A person needs time to recover from an emotional setback just as he or she would need time to convalesce after an illness.

Being a little bit more tolerant than usual about accepting even potentially boring invitations is an opportunity to join groups of people. It is also a big opportunity to be able to share mutual interests with other people. This is one of the best ways to make friends. If a person is still shy and bruised by a painful experience, he or she will find that his or her mental equilibrium and confidence will be regained faster among new acquaintances.

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How to Win Back Your Ex Boyfriend the Right Way

After 30 years of providing Psychic Readings, I would say 60% of the readings are based around exes, mainly ex-boyfriends. And these readings usually contain a million and one questions. Clients asking if their ex still misses them, will they get back together, has my ex met someone else and so on. I often wonder why people chose to go backwards rather than forwards in their life and I believe the reason is because, an ex-partner is a security blanket. It's a cliche of 'better the devil you know' but in some cases, your ex is not the better devil, he may just simply be the devil!

You don't actually need a Psychic Readings to bring him back; because it won't and in some cases neither will a spell. But what a reading will give you is advice and guidance on HOW to get back the one that got away and some insight into how your ex-partner is feeling about you. Over the 30 years of reading I have seen many scenario's where people are going the wrong way about getting their ex back. I have seen people who call and communicate with their ex all the time, will continue to have passionate times together, will suddenly turn into the bunny boiler that they never thought they could be. Sometimes it can take someone from the outside to bring you knowledge, on how to get your back and do it the right way with pride and dignity.

Failing on a mission to get your ex back is a frustrating situation. It's the one thing you cannot control, if you want your old career back you can go get it, if you want a new car then you can get that too. But you cannot simply say to him were getting back together and they automatically say yes, because 80% of the time it doesn't work that easy.

Ever heard people say women are very different to men? It's a boring thing to hear but very true.The way that someone could win us back, is not the same way to win a man back. Men are like children and simply ALWAYS want what they cannot have. It's human nature and more so a tendency in men. If you are there calling, texting, showing your interest then you are little miss available, why would he need to chase something he already has?

We always recommend when having a reading regarding you and your ex, to not ask for timings on when they are coming back. Timings are often not guaranteed and cause people to literally sit and wait and this does not help.

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Celebrating a Milestone Birthday With a Customized Birthday Invitation

Aside from a wedding invitation, a birthday invitation is the best way to inform loved ones that you are going to celebrate another milestone in your life. But there are some birthdays more special than others. For adults, these are milestones that impact the passage of time; such as the 30th, 40th, and 50th birthdays or even a 100th birthday! These are reasons to celebrate and need a special milestone birthday invitations to bring the message to your friends and family so they will be around to celebrate the occasion with you.

Specially created for you, custom birthday invitations show the relevance of the occasion. Just as you would also prefer a customized wedding invitation, you have the option to personally design the invitation or have it customized by some reputable printing shops. Here are some ideas you can adopt in designing your milestone birthday invitation card:

• Your 18th Birthday- A great kick off to start the celebration is by sending personalized invitations which will fit your theme. This is the best way to mark your entrance into the adult world with family and friends. Choose 18 roses, 18 pastel candles or pink balloons as part of your design.


• 30th Birthday - Consider every conceivable theme and pattern to make it more personal and creative. The tone can be casual to formal using eye-catching designs and shapes to make the occasion stand out. It could be colorful and vibrant similar to an ethnic wedding invitation.


• 40th Birthday- Greet your 40th year with a Smile! Make these invitations memorable, specially designed to highlight unforgettable moments. Custom birthday Invitation might be chic, funny, serious or whimsical.


• 50th Birthday - With age comes wisdom-and fun! Whether your goal is to toast or roast, your guests will be glad that you are having another milestone; meeting your age with dignity and a sense of humor. Or just as romantic in tone as your wedding invitation from decades ago.


• 60th Birthday - Send personalized invitations to family and friends to celebrate your 60th year; the best reason to have a party. Designs that are colorful, bold and festive, or perhaps a black and white motif will make invitation cards appealing.


• 70th Birthday -70 is a great accomplishment! It is a fact that any birthday ending in zero is great, especially the 70th birthday. A grand milestone birthday celebration is coming.


• 100th Birthday - It is almost incredible to reach a century. Make the invitation fantastic! Place a photo of the celebrant in a favorite picture framed and in the circle place the number 100. You can print all the details of the events below and even in the back.

Depending upon the time and your type of personality, the tone of the custom birthday invitation can be appreciative, complimentary, funny, heartfelt, inspirational, lighthearted, religious, romantic, simply stated and suggestive.

Whether you are the person celebrating or someone special in your life, make the occasion a big event and start by sharing your milestone birthday celebration with your family and friends. Make these custom birthday invitations as memorable as your wedding invitations.

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Asking a Girl Out on a Date for the First Time - Helpful Tips for Men

Thinking of asking a girl out on a date for the first time? You must be nervous but you have to take the first step to experience the date you've been dreaming of. Taking the first step is always hard and it can be a real challenge but you have to conquer your nervousness to be able to go out with her. Yes, it is possible to be rejected but it is also possible that she will accept your invitation. Take away all those hesitations and do not let the opportunity pass you by.

To lessen or to conquer your nervousness in asking a girl out on a date for the first time, it would be really helpful to plan on what are you going to say to her and where are you taking her out. The following tips can be very helpful.

Do some checking before asking a girl out on a date for the first time. There might be some questions in your head that you need to answer first before asking her out. Questions like, is she dating someone else? Of course you wouldn't want to be the third person when she is already dating someone else and by checking on this, you will save yourself from any trouble. Are the two of you have something in common? It will be easier to ask a girl out if you have things in common like hobbies or interest on something. Is the girl in speaking terms with you? Have you caught her secretly looking at you? Gauging your chances of getting a "yes" as an answer can boost your confidence in asking a girl out on a date for he first time.

Have the right reasons why you want to date her. Ask yourself why you want to date her? Of course dating is the first step to get to know someone you like that you want to get involved with or have a relationship with. I do not know about you but for me that should be the reason for dating someone. If you want to date her for any other reasons like, winning a bet with your friends if you got to date her, things like these could have a bad effect on you in the future or you will end up hurting her and yourself. Be honest with yourself why you want to date her and if you know your reasons, you can think of ways on how to ask her out. She might even ask why you are taking her out on a date to test your sincerity.

Although you want a "yes" for an answer, be prepared on how you will take rejections. It is best not to take a "no" answer so heavily and never pressure her to go out with you. Learn the grace of accepting defeat; besides, a rejection now doesn't mean a "no" forever, it is best not to have bad feelings with each other because you do not know how things in the future will turn out. It is easier to still be nice with her and when you bumped into her once in a while, you know you have nothing to be ashamed of.

Before asking a girl out on a date for the first time, you must have a plan on where you want to take her and have the details ready if in case she accepted your invitation. It can be a real turn off if she will accept your invitation and when she asked you the details of the date, you do not know what to say. In planning your date with her, have in mind what she likes to do and what you two have in common. Describing to her your ideas for your date will make her feel special that you have everything planned just for her.

If you are nervous asking a girl out on a date for the first time, learn how to conquer your nervousness. If you need to practice how you will invite her, then do so. Practicing in front of a mirror will make you more comfortable when it is time to say the words in front of her. While emailing and text is so common now, asking a girl out on a date for the first time should be done face to face. It is a bad idea to boost your confidence by drinking alcoholic drinks so do not use this method. It is better to start with small talk with her to warm you up and as the conversation gets more comfortable, wait for the best time to ask her out.

Mustering the courage to ask a girl out on a date is not as hard as you think. Asking a girl out on a date for the first time is easier if you are equipped with the skills to attract the woman of your dreams.

Make Your Ex Boyfriend Want You Back Through Text

If your ex boyfriend was the one who broke up with you, you're most probably the one trying to stay in touch with him, right? You might be thinking that this is going to help you stay close to each other because you're still in love with him. And if he's the first person to send you text message, you promptly send him a text message back. Believe it or not, doing all these may not be helpful in actually making your ex boyfriend want you back.

The truth of the matter is: the only good time to text your ex boyfriend is if he gives you a call after the breakup. If all he does is send you a text message, delete it to eliminate the temptation to reply. The same goes for emails and other online messages. Erase all of these messages and leave them unanswered. You may not believe it, but doing this will benefit you in the long run.

See, promptly responding to every text message he sends you shows him that he has complete control over you. To him, it'll seem like you have nothing better to do than just sit around or lie in bed waiting for him to text you. If you do the complete opposite and ignore him, you'll be showing him that you have better things to do other than tend to him. This will make him curious and maybe even make him more interested in you.

The more you ignore your ex boyfriend after the breakup, the bigger the chances will be of you making your ex boyfriend want you back in the end. His mind will be filled with thoughts of you. He'll be wondering if you have found someone new or if he has done anything that has made you get over him easily.

Men are egotistical by nature and they don't like it when you mess with their egos. He will start to notice when you choose not to reply to any of his text messages. They don't like being rejected so this will definitely hurt their pride. He'll start doubting his decision of breaking up with and would start to desperately think of ways to win you back. Once this happens, you'll manage to have full control of the situation and over him. And because of this, you can make your ex boyfriend want you back through text.

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Mastering Emotional Regulation

One of the worst problems we experience in life, within social settings, is the phenomenon of feeling controlled by other people. When we feel out of control, with the implication that others are more in control than we are, emotional regulation becomes a major challenge.

Our biggest mistake in these situations is that we broaden notions of control beyond what we can control. We delve into areas of life that are no concern to us. No wonder we struggle, because we have placed ourselves in tenuous emotional positions.

Mastering emotional regulation is simply about disciplining ourselves to focus on what we can do and to stop focusing on what we can't do.

"WHAT CAN I DO?"

When we feel emotionally awry, or simply a little unhappy with a particular outcome, we can ask questions like this, which centre us. For a moment we may be frustrated with the answer. We may not be able to do much except accept the situation as it is.
But there is an irony within the control here.

It's not what the other person or people did or does that counts, but it's what we did and what we can do that makes the biggest difference regarding the regulation of our emotions.

We take too much responsibility for other people's emotions and not enough responsibility for our own emotions. No wonder we are confused with regard to our affect. To emphasise personal control we need to centre back again upon what we can influence.

Whenever we accept the boundaries within our own personal control, emotional regulation becomes never easier. It also helps for us to see aspects of their brokenness and our wholeness.

THEIR BROKENNESS AND OUR WHOLENESS

We too often see it the other way around - their wholeness and advantage and our brokenness and lack of capacity.

Seeing another person's fallibility is a blessing to them, as our grace forgives them for their frailties of character. Like us, they are far from perfect. They may do things to upset us, but they have less control over their interactions with us than they would like. And, there's nothing wrong with seeing ourselves with a capacity for wholeness.

If we are broken, and we all are, we also have aspects of wholeness that ought to be celebrated.

The boundaries of our personal control are safety for us regarding our emotional regulation. The more we ask, "What can I do?" the more we reinforce what we can actually influence. Our emotions become less like a roller coaster and more like a steady drive through the countryside.

© 2012 S. J. Wickham.

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Breaking News - Your Feelings Don't Matter

As deliberate creators we think we need to feel it to get it. We place a lot of emphasis on feeling it first or getting lined up with our feelings, because we think feelings are the magic juice in creation. Science however, is beginning to paint a very different picture about the creation process.

We are all aware of the phenomenon called the observer effect. It basically shows that just by our observation we have an effect on the outcome. Generally speaking just the words observer effect are an oxymoron, because it's impossible to observe without participating. Scientists will spend decades unraveling the meaning of the recent discovery of the Higgs Boson. However, what we know for sure is that what was theoretical physics a few months ago, is now hard science and in very simplistic terms we are focus machines. Feelings might be a byproduct of focus. They may be an indicator, however, they may not, and it doesn't really matter. After all these years science is proving what deliberate creators have known all along. We create our reality. The curveball is, feelings are irrelevant.

Today I cleaned my whole dining room for one vase of flowers. Those flowers reminded me of flowers in English manors I've visited that came out of the gardens on the grounds. That oozes wealth to me. That focus gets me one step closer to wealth. Even if I'm not "feeling it" I can still navigate with my focus by looking for other things that represent wealth to me. Will that cause me to feel wealthy? Probably. However, even if I don't, it doesn't matter. Focus is the key.

For a lot of deliberate creators feelings can be sticky. We know how we want to feel, but we can't always seem to wrangle those pesky emotions into behaving the way we want them too. Sometimes you feel bad and can't shake it. Sometimes when we feel bad we worry about what we are creating.

A lot of emphasis on feelings is great when they are lining up, but when they don't it's frustrating. We get hyper-focused on trying to manage the feeling, and when it doesn't work we feel like we won't get where we want to go. However, the science says it doesn't matter.

I in fact can be feeling a lot of worry about money, but if I'm focusing my attention on wealth, fresh flowers, fast cars, English manors, and such, my observation of wealth is what has an impact on matter around me. I can focus on how much money I have instead of how much I don't have. I can focus on incredible love and the romance of a lifetime instead of loneliness. I can focus on health and a vibrant body instead of focusing on aches and pains or extra pounds. We know this stuff, and it might sound like I'm splitting hairs here, because chances are high if I'm really focused on these things I'll feel better. But I don't have to feel better for it to start navigating intentionally towards my next reality - and that's all it is, my next reality, not a new reality or a whole different creation. We are always creating a new experience of reality. Noticing what we are noticing is how we deliberately get there.

The focus work is fun. It's like a treasure hunt. How can I notice what I want more of next? The science community is using the word, "interact" a lot today. The concept of interaction can be quite literal. How can I interact with health, wealth, great romance? Interaction is magic.

Putting feelings before focus is like having a car without an engine. You aren't going to go anywhere. We do not live in an emotional universe. We live in an energetic field. When you change your focus you can change anything. Feelings are an optional by product.

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3 Fail-Proof Ways to Make Women Like You

Impressing a woman and getting her to like you is easy. You may say that's not true, but it is provided you know what to do and how to do it. If you do things right, you can make any woman like you very quickly and very easily. Check out these simple effective ways you can get a woman to like you right away.

Impress Her By Not Impressing Her

Ok, that sounds strange right? Well, it does make sense. Just have fun being around her and whoever else is around at the time. You don't want to look needy and like you're just fishing for attention so keep cool. When you're obviously trying to impress a woman, she will see that's what you're trying to do and it's not going to be good for you. Get that desperate vibe off of you and just have fun with whatever is going on. Like I said, impress her by not impressing her.

I Don't Need You

You might want her, you might need her, but don't show it. If she's the one for you and you are in a relationship with her, then you can, but for right now, just be indifferent in this sense. If you show that you can and will live with or without her, you will automatically attract her. If you show that you need her, she knows she can get you to chase her and she has control over all that happens after. She can't do the hard-to-get routine if you prove that you don't need her to survive.

Quality Matters Most

If you show yourself as someone who has high standards, you will attract women quickly and easily. Having high standards shows a woman that not just any will do. Of course, you don't want to set them too high, but setting them reasonably high will show a woman that you are confident that you are a good man who deserves someone equally as good. Normally, very attractive women in a physical sense get a lot of attention. Don't show too much interest even in a woman like this. Acting in this way will put off that vibe that it will take more than looks just to get your attention. You will end up weeding out low-quality women as well as attracting women.

Well, there you have it. 3 foolproof ways you can get a woman to like you almost instantaneously. Like I said, if you know what you're doing, then it's simple. Now you know what you're doing, put these methods into practice. For more tips on how to get a woman to like you quickly, subscribe to my newsletter.

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Do You Miss Your Ex? Here Are Some Ways To Get Your Ex Back

Were you recently dumped by the greatest man/woman of your life? Or maybe you let go of a great boyfriend/girlfriend and don't realize how good you had it until the other person was gone? In either case, if you're reading this, you most likely miss your ex and wonder about ways to get the ex back.

Although relationships can be difficult to maintain, this often does not compare to the hardship endured after the relationship seems over. Some people will go through months or even years of a bad relationship before ending it. Other people may have a way of ending a relationship before it has even had time to solidify. Either way, here are four ways to get your ex back:

1. Take a time-out from each other.

Avoiding all communication might seem counter-intuitive or the opposite of what you are trying to accomplish. But ask yourself: have you been begging, pleading, or harassing your ex? Did any of this work? I'll bet you a steak dinner that none of this has been working. Taking a break will allow you time to get out of your rut and give the other person a chance to miss you. If you keep hounding him or her, he/she will only be more convinced that breaking up was the right decision.

2. Make time to better yourself.

You need to feel good about yourself and have healthy self-esteem in order to be in a state of mind that will win your ex back. Although you might not feel very good about yourself now, there are things you can do to improve your mood and overall state of mind. You might not feel like making time or effort to do any of this at first, but just keep your eye on the prize (think about how great it would be to have your ex back in your arms once again). Most likely you haven't been eating right or getting enough exercise or sleep. You can boost and maintain your overall health, well-being, and state of mind by eating the right foods (fresh fruits, vegetables, going easy on junk food, etc.), exercising at least 30 minutes a day three times a week, and getting adequate sleep.

3. Get yourself out there.

This is also another way to better yourself; since this is so important it gets a section of its own. Rather than stay home and remain depressed or unmotivated, you need to go out (even if you have to force yourself to get out). This might mean joining a club, taking up a new hobby, and/or meeting with friends whenever you can. Just don't dive into any new meaningless relationships. If your ex were to find out, then he or she would just be more convinced that the breakup was the right decision.

4. Once you are ready, take action.

After you feel more comfortable with yourself in your "separation stage" and feel a sense of healthy self-esteem and well-being, then you can consider contacting your ex. By taking the time to improve your self-image (and image to others), you will be establishing an excellent foundation for getting your ex back and having an even better relationship than before. Best wishes to you.

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