Relationships are prized quite high in the spiritual realm. I say this because relationships either bring out our best or worst personalities. It is therefore always important to be mindful of who we associate with, and what they bring into our lives. Always.
There is a difference between patience and wasting time. We know what situation we are in, regardless of whether we are willing to admit this to ourselves or not. The question is what to do with our realizations.
There is a lot of joy found in giving, and giving without expecting reward or action in kind. There is however a lot of grief in giving to someone who not only takes, but makes it quite clear that he is not interested in reciprocating pure gifts. We have to be careful about what we give, and to whom.
Terrible experiences are not meant to define our self-worth, they are there to teach us. If we are still able to hold our heads high, check our dream of companionship and find it still intact, then nothing was lost. In time, we see how great it actually was that some relationships did not work out. Sometimes, we see how we dropped the ball, and can decide what to do with the lesson the next time.
If we are meant to get married, please believe me when I say that no amount of bad experience or words will take that away from us. If God has intended a union, it will be done. The question is how willing we are to work on ourselves in the interim. This is very important.
The man who steps in beside you while you are busy doing you, is the one who is meant for you. To get the best, ensure that you are doing your best with what you need to do for you. In this sense, you are not waiting for someone to complete you, rather, you will find a companion to walk beside you, as you continue on your journey called life.
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