Friday, June 24, 2011

Approaching a Woman - Five Awesome Tips and A Practice Drill

A few lucky men are naturals when it comes to approaching a woman. The rest of us are not. So we must learn how to approach women. Women make it hard for men to approach them. They only let in a select few that are worthy of mixing their genes with their own.

There all kinds of approaches out there, but probably the best one, is to be natural. I am going to give you three great tips and a technique that can help you be more comfortable at approaching women.

1. Never approach a woman from behind. This will frighten her. Think about it, if you were talking with friends, what would you think if a woman comes from behind you and tries to begin a conversation. It would probably frighten you too. If you do this, her first impression of you will be fear and danger.

2. Do not wait for the perfect moment. By doing this, you waste a massive amount of time, she will lose interest and leave. Also if you wait, your can become much more anxious and fear-full. This will result in more hesitation and worries.

3. Do not over think or over analyze the approach. You need to be relaxed when approaching a woman, and if you think of every possible outcome before saying a word, you have already lost your confidence.

4. Be comfortable with yourself so that she can be comfortable with you. If you are nervous or apprehensive about approaching her, she will feel that and become nervous and apprehensive about your approach also.

5. Be friendly and engaging when approaching a woman. If you try to act like a stud, more than likely you will end up looking like a complete dud.

These are pretty basic tips right. The thing is, they work. You must practice all this before you start approaching women, then these tips will become natural to you.

To practice, you must first start approaching people you're not attracted to, so your nerves will be set to ease. Approach every one, men and women that you are not attracted to. Do not approach them sexually, just engage in conversation with everyone that you meet.

You want to keep developing the skills until you come completely at ease approaching all varieties of people. Next you must transfer this approach to women that you are attracted to. Do make sure that you become very skilled at approaching people before you start approaching women that you are attracted to.

Remember practice makes perfect. Once you are completely at ease approaching strangers, you should be able to transfer your skills with ease. The five steps I mentioned earlier will be a cake walk after all of your practice.



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Wednesday, June 15, 2011

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Wednesday, June 8, 2011

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Saturday, June 4, 2011

How to Approach a Woman With Her Friends - Is It a No Go?

I've seen a lot of top 10 style lists about when you should not approach women, and while sometimes they tend to be on point, a lot of the time they make blanket assumptions that really are not as "right" as they make them out to be. One really common assumption is that you should never approach a woman when she is with her friends. Well, if you have not already noticed this, most of the time when a woman goes out... she is with at least one friend. Seriously, try to find a woman standing completely by herself in a bar or a club. Usually, she has at least one friend with her.

So, is it a "no go" when a woman is with her friends?

Most of the time, the answer is no. It's not a no go. If you approach a woman the right way when she is with her friends, it can actually do a lot for you. Honestly, if you were to abide by a rule like, you can't approach a woman when she is with her friends, you would probably get very few opportunities at all to meet women. Like I said, when you are at a club, a bar, or even a park, women tend to be with at least one of their friends.

How should you approach a woman when she is with her friends?

First off, never approach her like it is a "pick up." Do that, and her friends will block you hard enough to make a NFL offensive line blush, lol. Approach her and her friends with an open and friendliness approach that makes you seem like you just want to have some fun and get to know some people. And actually have that attitude, because you never know when you might have a good time with a woman and her friends.

Make it a point to give attention to everyone in her group. Whether she is with one person or a multitude of friends, give some attention to everyone. If you only give attention to the woman you want to get to know, you are going to alienate the rest of the group and that is when they tend to go into "block" mode. Actually all they have to do is migrate to another spot and she will follow them, because they are her friends after all.

The great thing about approaching a woman with her friends is, if they like you... your chances of getting her number or a date shoot through the roof. Hey, I have had situations where the friends wound up doing most of the "gaming" for me just because they thought I was a cool guy and they had fun hanging out with me. That goes over really well, and gives her the impression that you will make things fun, because her friends will be able to tag along if they want to.

Are there any times when you should not approach a woman with her friends?

Sure. If they have a really serious vibe about them or it seems kind of obvious that they are in their own world, that might not be a time when you want to make an approach. That will kind of snap them out of their fun, and then you become the guy that ended their good time, which is not a good thing to be. Most of the time, though, as long as you approach her the right way and don't make it look like an obvious pick up, approaching a woman when she is with her friends is actually very good for you.



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Thursday, June 2, 2011

Top Qualities That Men Look For In Women

Some women are afraid to go on dates these days because they're afraid that they won't be able to meet the expectation of their date. Others don't even entertain the prospect of dating because they assume that they are not pretty or sexy enough. Because of magazines and television, women are lead to believe that they must meet a certain standard to be able to attract and meet men.

You have to accept that physical appearance is important to men. It's a key for getting their attention. This is because men are visual beings, and if they like what they see, they will be attracted to it. But note that different men have different tastes in women. Some like brunettes, others like blonds; some like petite women, others prefer voluptuous women. There are men who like sporty women, while some would choose women with very feminine sense of fashion.

Although there are lots of men who use beautiful women as trophy girlfriends, to show off to their family and friends, don't forget that there are a whole lot of men out there who are looking for a relationship that's more than just skin deep.

Older men in particular, are getting tired of one-night stands and short-term relationships. They are at an age wherein they are looking for a partner to spend the rest of their lives with. They would be looking for common interests and willingness to commit to an exclusive relationship.

Qualities That Attract And Keep Men

Beyond the physical, there are qualities that you should possess to attract, and keep your man. Men would be attracted to you if you have a charismatic personality. They like approachable women, not someone with an invisible wall around her. You should strive to be the type of girl who, at first meeting, knows what to say and knows how to make witty comments.

A sense of humor is also at the top of the list. Show interest and make an effort to complement a man genuinely. Men are egoistic by nature, so if you say anything good about them, they'll also think highly of you.

Having a magnetic personality requires confidence. Confidence does not mean bragging about your skills, but rather accepting yourself as you are and showing it in a proper manner. Ask your guy friends for some tips on how to improve your personality and how to socialize with men.

Even after a few dates, always keep a positive attitude in everything you do. Restrain from complaining about so many things he would think you're whining. Unless absolutely necessary do not complain about anything that he does. As part of his ego, he wants his opinions to be respected. It doesn't mean that you shouldn't express yourself; it means that you should give him a chance to express himself as well.

When moving on to a more serious stage, learn to trust your man. Avoid being to possessive and controlling because at some point he will feel suffocated and choke. Allow him to move around with his own strategy and make him feel like he's in charge. If there's something you want done, suggest it to him in a nice way. Being too clingy is also not the way to go, because men usually need their space.

These are some general qualities that attract men. In the end what's more important is finding the right man you share chemistry with no matter how different your personalities and interests might be.



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5 Awesome Free Dating Site Tips

Dating online can either turn out to be the greatest experience in your life or a total waste of time. The outcome is really determined by you. By following these five simple tips, you can quickly and easily sort out the duds and find yourself a lifelong mate.

Tip #1 Looks Really Do Matter
I'm going to be perfectly honest with you here. Most of the so-called 'dating gurus' will tell you that "looks don't matter" and they are flat out wrong. Dating site users look at photos, and it's often the first thing that they browse through. You don't have to be a Liz Hurley or a David Beckham look-alike to get noticed, but you do need to look presentable. This means that you should only use photos where you are smiling and enjoying life.

One of the biggest mistakes that I see is the use of cheap, low quality pictures. Avoid using photos that are grainy or taken with camera phones. Studies have shown that the quality of the profile photo can play a role in the number of responses received on dating sites.

You should also avoid the regular head shots or "glamour shots", and provide candid photos where you can show your true identity to the world. Of course, you should always use pictures that show you in your best light, but remember to use a recent photo that depicts how you currently appear. Don't forget that someone will eventually meet you, and it will be extremely awkward if you don't look like the person in the photo.

Tip #2 You Need A Deadly Profile
If you want to find love on the internet, your profile must differentiate yourself from the thousands of other members without making you look like a weirdo. The key is to keep it interesting, while highlighting your positive attributes. But, you must also remain modest. A profile that reads like a list of accomplishments can give some readers the impression that you are either conceited or intimidating. This is the kiss of death for online daters.

Once you've finished your masterpiece, make sure that you check the spelling and grammar before allowing it to go live. Posting an error-filled profile is one of the biggest mistakes made on online dating sites, and only one of the easiest to avoid. Don't make this common error, as ignorance is a major turn-off!

Tip #3 Minimum Effort Yields Minimum Results
If you're willing to put in some time and energy, the dates will come pretty naturally. When I started meeting women online, I took it very seriously and treated it like a salesperson would. I looked at the available women as my "leads". You'll find that many of these leads are not what you're looking for. Sort through them all, and contact as many people that fit your dating criteria. You must get out of your comfort zone and make the initial contact.

As most good sales people know, it takes many "no's" to get a "yes". Dating sites are exactly the same, but even better. In this case, that one yes could turn out to be the love of your life.

Tip #4 Blow Them Away With The Initial Contact
As with the profile, you must do something that sets yourself apart from everyone else. I usually like to start out by mentioning something that I noticed in their profile. This shows that you are in fact interested in them, and didn't just fire off a form letter to a few hundred random people. However, keep in mind that you should never compliment them on their looks in the first email. If they're good looking, they know this, and it will put you in a weaker position.

Once you've shown that you're interested in that person, you can write a bit about yourself and what you have in common with them. A little bit of charm and humor goes well here. Most importantly, you must spread a few questions throughout this email as well. You need to give them a reason to respond to you. Otherwise, you risk receiving a stale response or sometimes nothing at all.

Tip #5 After The Second Email - Move It Offline
If you're serious about online dating, you must take the conversation offline as soon as possible. In my experience, if you wait past the second email, the conversation will run a bit stagnant and you will never meet each other. Simply provide your number, and ask for their number as well. If they don't provide it at this point, it means that they're either married or not serious. In that case, it's better to move on before you get too attached.

When you receive the phone number, you must make the call as soon as possible. Procrastination will destroy everything that you've worked for. Keep the conversation moving along and if everything feels right, ask to meet in person.

Follow these five simple tips and you will be way ahead of the other "romance seekers" that don't have a clue. As you can see, it's easy once you have a system in place and follow it. Just remember to always be yourself and have a good time with it, and you will truly enjoy the ride.



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Wednesday, June 1, 2011

Texting Women - When a Good Thing Goes Bad

Texting women. Why do so many guys get this dead wrong in their approach? Texting women can be a great way to further advance things, but if you do it the way that the average guy does, you are not really doing yourself any favors at all. See, texting a woman can brighten up her day when it is done right, but it can also make her feel annoyed and agitated when it is done wrong. And I have to tell you, just from talking to the many women that I know, most guys end up annoying and agitating women. Especially the ones that get advice on how to text a woman from the internet.

Why is that?

Because of the very simple, yet very misunderstood principle that sending a woman text messages is not going to make her get all hot and bothered for you UNLESS she already feels attracted to you. And yet, most men when they text a woman, use it as almost a way to pick her up, when that is about the worst way to use it.

Here's the scenario:

You get your hands on a woman's cell phone number but did not have much time to actually interact with her. Maybe she gave it to you in a blur at a club. Maybe you know one of her friends and they gave it to you. No matter what, you did not have much time at all to build any rapport or make her feel attracted to you.

You get on the web, grab some list of 10 flirty things to say to a woman through text messaging and off you go. Do you REALLY think that this is going to make her want you? If you do, you may want to get to know women just a little better, lol.

This is when a good thing goes bad. Technology today makes it dead easy to get into contact with people. That can be a great thing when you use it right. It can be horrible when you use it wrong. And in the scenario above, it is using it wrong.

Here's a better scenario:

You are out at a club and you start talking to a woman. You flirt with her, she is flirting back with you. You are touching her and she is touching you back. Everything is going great. Problem is, the logistics of the situation don't allow the two of you to get alone or to leave the club together. So, you get her number, she gets yours.

You text her back the next day with a little blurb that carries on the conversation from the night before. You get her back into that feeling that she had when she was around you. You use this opportunity to call her. You talk for a little while, build things up even more and then line up a day or night when the two of you can get together.

That is how to use text messages to get real results with women. You don't need to send cheesy little messages to a woman you barely know. It won't get you anywhere and if it does, you gotta kind of question what kind of woman she is, lol. If she hooks up with you off of a couple of messages back and forth, how often does she do that?

You get much BETTER results when she is already attracted to you...

Think about it like this. Would you call up a woman and tell her something cheesy about how hot she is? Probably not. So why would you send it in a text? That kind of thing only works AFTER she already is into you.

Real World Situation...

This is a pretty common, real world situation. I was talking to a woman I know about how girls have so many phone numbers stored in their cell phones. Mainly, I was busting on her about it. She pulled out her cell phone and took a look. There were over 150 numbers on that thing. Now, this is a woman I am friends with.

She's definitely hot, fun to be around, etc. Guys like her the minute that they see her. So, she gets a lot of guy's numbers.

So, anyways, we are looking through all of the names and numbers in there, and I am pointing to random ones. More than half of the ones I pointed to... she had no clue on who they were. She wither did not know at all, or she just knew them as "that cheesy guy from that club."

Do you think that any of these guys that she does not even remember or refers to as that "cheesy guy from the club" has a shot if they send her a flirty text message?

Not at all.

This is common nowadays. Women almost always have more numbers stored in their cell phones than guys do. And if you send some random text message to a woman who really does not remember you or has no feelings at all, no matter how flirty it is... it is not going to have much any positive effect on her.

It might have a NEGATIVE effect, but that gets you NADA.

Anyways, my friend?

She wound up deleting at least a dozen guy's numbers when she realized... she did not know who they were.

Before you pick up your cell phone and copy down some "super effective" text message that you find somewhere or that one of your buddies swears works on all women, ask yourself... Does she even remember me?

If the answer is NO... then you might as well put down the cell phone and work on building up attraction with a woman face to face. It will get you MORE dates, more hookups, and MORE confidence.

Then, once you have your hooks into a woman and she is really feeling YOU... by all means, use text messages to brighten her day, make her think about you, or even get "hot" for you. It all comes down to timing, really.



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