A few lucky men are naturals when it comes to approaching a woman. The rest of us are not. So we must learn how to approach women. Women make it hard for men to approach them. They only let in a select few that are worthy of mixing their genes with their own.
There all kinds of approaches out there, but probably the best one, is to be natural. I am going to give you three great tips and a technique that can help you be more comfortable at approaching women.
1. Never approach a woman from behind. This will frighten her. Think about it, if you were talking with friends, what would you think if a woman comes from behind you and tries to begin a conversation. It would probably frighten you too. If you do this, her first impression of you will be fear and danger.
2. Do not wait for the perfect moment. By doing this, you waste a massive amount of time, she will lose interest and leave. Also if you wait, your can become much more anxious and fear-full. This will result in more hesitation and worries.
3. Do not over think or over analyze the approach. You need to be relaxed when approaching a woman, and if you think of every possible outcome before saying a word, you have already lost your confidence.
4. Be comfortable with yourself so that she can be comfortable with you. If you are nervous or apprehensive about approaching her, she will feel that and become nervous and apprehensive about your approach also.
5. Be friendly and engaging when approaching a woman. If you try to act like a stud, more than likely you will end up looking like a complete dud.
These are pretty basic tips right. The thing is, they work. You must practice all this before you start approaching women, then these tips will become natural to you.
To practice, you must first start approaching people you're not attracted to, so your nerves will be set to ease. Approach every one, men and women that you are not attracted to. Do not approach them sexually, just engage in conversation with everyone that you meet.
You want to keep developing the skills until you come completely at ease approaching all varieties of people. Next you must transfer this approach to women that you are attracted to. Do make sure that you become very skilled at approaching people before you start approaching women that you are attracted to.
Remember practice makes perfect. Once you are completely at ease approaching strangers, you should be able to transfer your skills with ease. The five steps I mentioned earlier will be a cake walk after all of your practice.
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