dating is more of an art than it is a science. That's why I want to remind you that while there are some pretty universal qualities that attract women, don't get stuck in the vacuum of thinking that all women want exactly the same thing or that there is one technique that will make all women respond favorably to you. I've seen some guys fall under that impression, and they usually quickly find out that it's not exactly true. Still, there are some qualities that are pretty universal, meaning that while not all women are attracted to these qualities, they do tend to be what a lot of women are attracted to.
Guys that understand what these qualities are will undoubtedly have a much easier time attracting women than those who don't. Of course, just knowing what these qualities are will not guarantee you any success with women. You have to be able to take these qualities and build on them so that you can make them effective for you.
Anyways, here are a few qualities that are attractive to (most) women:
1. Honesty.
I know, it's sounds a little too squeaky clean to hear this, but let me explain what I really mean. Most men are trying really hard to come across as being really close to perfect when they want to impress a woman. So, many times they will exaggerate things or even make things up with the hopes that this will be impressive to a woman. And you know what? Sometimes it works for a short time. The thing is, it usually does not work out long term. Usually you will get busted on it. But, there is a little more as to why honesty is such an attractive quality. It shows REAL CONFIDENCE. Let's say that you don't make a lot of money, and you are honest about that. That might turn off some women ( the gold diggers), but to a lot of women it will be REFRESHING, because income is one of the most lied about things when a guy is trying to impress a woman.
2. Sense of Calmness.
This is a very attractive quality to many women and it's one that is actually kind of rare. Anyone can be calm in a calm situation. Not everyone can be calm when things get a little chaotic. In fact, most people lose their calm when things get a little chaotic. So, having a sense of calmness in most situations is actually a pretty rare quality to have. And what do people seem to value most in this world? Things that are perceived to be rare. And that is true of the qualities men have that women find attractive. So, if you are in a situation where a typical guy would get "frazzled," show her your rare quality of staying calm and in control of your emotions.
3. The ability to make something out of nothing.
This might sound like a good quality to have in business (and it is), but it can be good in other situations as well. Here's what I mean: Let's say that you make plans to take a woman out somewhere and for whatever reason, it's not happening. Maybe the restaurant bumped you even though you had a reservation. Can you turn the night around and still make it enjoyable for her? If you can, if you can take that nothing situation and make it special, you will WOW her. Trust me.
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