I am writing this article because of a conversation that I had recently with an old friend of mine who confided that he was having trouble getting dates. The look on his face pretty much said it all. It was having a negative impact on his life and his happiness. I'm sure you can relate to this in some way, we all can. Anyways, he wanted to get some advice on how to get dates, and so, I started to feed him some suggestions. Much to my surprise, he seemed pretty defensive against one statement that I made. And that statement was... that he had to make some changes.
Guys can be resistant to change, it's almost like it is hard wired into our DNA to resist making changes to ourselves. The problem with that is... nothing really changes until YOU make some changes. So, if you are not getting any luck when it comes to dating, if it seems almost impossible to meet the right woman, then chances are... something has got to change.
With that being said, here are 3 simple adjustments that you can make right now to help you get dates right away:
1) Have some pretty wild goals in life.
How would this apply to dating and in helping you get dates? Well, it's really no secret that women are much more attracted to men of achievement than they are to slackers. You are going to impress a woman a lot more if in talking to her you reveal that you have some pretty wild and big goals in life than if you go on and on about how no one can beat you in beer pong and you can kick some serious rear when it comes to Xbox. Set some goals that are pretty big and work on them. Then, watch the response that you get from women when you reveal your life goals.
2) Be realistic about the women you approach.
By this, I don't mean that you should not approach women out of your league. What I mean is... be realistic in the way that you approach them. Do you really think that she is going to fall for whatever line your buddy fed you and guaranteed that it works, when he himself struggles to get dates? Or, do you really think that approaching a woman when she is in a bad mood is going to help you get a date with her? Be realistic when you make your approach and you will do much better.
3) Square yourself up before you go out.
I could also say... set yourself up for success. This means that you need to get your house in order, straighten it up. Make sure that you look your best before you go out, give yourself an extra 5-10 minutes to get ready if you need to. Drive your own car to the bar and stay away from the drinks if you want to get a woman to go home with you.
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