Balance is the key. A man who doesn't have balance is a man who isn't getting what he wants because he is either getting disrespected or he is breaking up with a woman who he may really like. If you're too nice, women will take advantage of your kindness. If you're too rude, women will get fed up (the smarter ones) and break up with you. You need to learn how to treat a woman accordingly. Here are a few things to keep in mind.
- Punish bad behavior, reward good behavior. When a woman is acting right, you let her know she's being good by rewarding her. If a woman is not acting right, you check her. Checking disrespect is the best way to get respect. Sometimes checking disrespect feels uncomfortable because you don't want to seem rude or like the bad guy. My opinion, be the bad guy once and you'll be the good guy twice.
- Stop worshiping beautiful women. Hot women don't want to be worshiped. What you are really doing is raising her value and lowering yours. People who are valuable and important don't worship other people no matter how hot or how successful they are. It's okay to admire or respect other people, but to worship someone else is a big no-no.
- Listen carefully. I know a lot of women aren't talking about things that interest you but listening does two things. It shows you that you respect her in some way, which makes her feel good about being with you, and it also lets you see how honest she's being with you. If you ask a woman where was she and she tells you she went shopping with her mother, but later on says she just came from the movies with her friends, she's not being honest with you and that's when you need to check her for being dishonest. Women who cheat usually have cover up stories and this is why you need to be a good listener... not just to be a good guy.
Knowing how to treat women in good situations and bad situations is the best way to keep women. If you're dating a woman and don't know how to treat her when she's being disrespectful, she will keep disrespecting you throughout the relationship. Be a man who women love and respect. Being liked is good but being respected is something every man wants.
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