Getting Your Ex Back - What to Do If Your Ex Is in a Rebound Relationship

It's bad enough that you have to worry about the breakup and getting your ex back but now you also found out that your ex is in a rebound relationship. Perhaps the pain of the breakup is too much for them and they turned to rebound relationships just to deal with all the emotions.

Some people think that rebound relationships are the answer when it comes to trying to move on from their real love. But then again, would you really be happy being with someone you don't really love? Not likely but the good news is that you still have a chance getting your ex back because the reason they're in a rebound relationship is because they're having a hard time getting over you.

So what do you need to do?

· Avoid apologizing to your ex all the time. Give a sincere apology for your mistakes then try to let them be.

· Never try to persuade your ex to come back to you. You can't force someone to love you and telling your ex that the two of you are meant to be together and that they're making a mistake is a bad idea. They need to figure this out on their own.

· Don't put the blame on your ex. Your ex may have their share of mistakes and wrongdoings but so do you.

· Don't beg them to take you back. This will only make you look pathetic and will push your ex further away from you.

· Be supportive. If you act supportive then your ex might be inclined to tell you about how the rebound relationship is going. This way, you'll know when the rebound relationship is falling apart and you can plan your move.

You might as well allow the rebound relationship to happen and run its course. Butting in and acting enraged will only make you look like the jealous and psychotic ex. Think of it this way: if your ex spends more time in this person, then your ex will notice the flaws and will miss you even more.

What you can do instead is use the time to make some self-improvements. When you got to the bottom of what really caused the breakup, then you know what you need to change in order for your ex not to feel like something is missing when they are in a relationship with you.

It doesn't matter who your ex is dating because it's likely this person doesn't have a history with your ex. They're just there to keep your ex preoccupied from the breakup. Let your ex miss the good things they experienced when they are in a relationship with you and wait for the right time to make your move. Also, allow your ex to see the improvements you've made.

Just remember that when it comes to getting your ex back, don't lose hope even if they are in a rebound relationship. It may be more of a challenge if they are seeing someone else, but keep in mind that they are doing this because they're hurting too.