How To Talk To A Girl You Like - Start Talking Easily With the Girl of Your Dreams

Don't you hate having conversations which are all alike? So do women. No one wants to hear the same questions over and over, so if you can make yourself stand out, it's a lot easier to get someone's attention and start building attraction. Women are often approached by men and asked more or less the same questions every time; the result is a series of dull conversations that leads nowhere.

Make A Statement

Instead of grilling a woman you're interested with questions, take a different approach - try making statements instead. You'll still get the answer you were looking for, but you'll make more of an impression on her at the same time. If you're wrong, she'll correct you; and this may also open up the opportunity for a more personal chat. You might also be correct, in which case you may impress her and build a rapport almost instantly.

Open Up

Most of us don't find it terribly easy to open up about our emotions, insecurities or even our goals, especially the first time we talk to a woman who we want to make a good impression on. Even as difficult as it can be to do this, you have to - moving to a deeper level of conversation allows you to connect on an emotional level. We're usually more comfortable talking about anything but ourselves; and we've been socialized to avoid showing any sign of vulnerability.

However, women tend to see vulnerability as an asset, since they are much more likely than their male counterparts to acknowledge the strength that it can take to open up to someone else. If you can open up to a woman (without going overboard, of course), you'll have a much better chance of starting a conversation and keeping it going.

Build An Emotional Connection

Now that we've talked about the importance of opening up to a woman you're interested in, you're probably wondering how to do it. The best openings are to talk about the best (or worst) things that have happened to you in your life, about your childhood - or if these are a little too intense for you to go into the first time that you meet someone, talk about your passions in life. By opening up a little, you begin to build the trust and emotional rapport with her which allows her to open up to you as well. As long as you're willing and able to be a good listener and to hold up your end of the conversation, this just could be the beginning of something big!

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