Jealousy is a very powerful weapon. When not used correctly, this weapon could destroy the one person who is handling it, and you definitely don't want that to be you. But it can also be a great tool and help you if you find yourself stuck in the friend zone. We're going to cover understanding jealousy, a warning about it and also the number 1 best way to get a girl jealous.
Jealousy is a very powerful emotion. That is why you should use it wisely and rarely, only when you feel the absolute need to use it. When is the best time to use jealousy?
- When someone whom you like seems to be distracted by someone else and you would like to regain their attention
- When the person you love seems to get distant, you will fear that you will lose them and you will start to push harder
When people are caught up in the jealousy web, you could say that the jealousy is what keeps a connection. There's a problem with this. If you make someone too jealous, especially a girl, she might not be able to handle the stress and pressure and fight back. No one likes to be made a fool. A little jealousy can go a long way and that can end up nasty. In the end both people lose.
Knowing the Jealousy Phases
- In the beginning, the man does not seem interesting to the woman. She has no feelings at all for him.
- If jealousy is created by the guy, she begins to be possessive and interested about him.
- At the peak, when she can't stand the jealousy. She becomes very possessive and very attracted to that male.
- If the jealousy continues without being satisfied it will have a reverse effect. Her feelings will turn sour. She might become vengeful and possibly find some way to hurt you in return for hurting her.
You have to be able to sense which phase she is in to be able to use the jealousy as a tool. She might do the same to you and turn the jealousy on you. Some womn are able to sense when they the jealousy games start getting played.
Warning: The Abuse of Power
When you use the power of jealousy too much, it will cost you. You will end up single and no woman will ever speak to you because she will know what kind of tricks you like to play. That's right. Jealousy is not to be tampered with. I think that everybody has experienced or knows of a person that uses jealousy to play people. At first it works, but then after a while you start calling their bluffs. You start to see it in their nature. Those are the people to look out for. They have a taste of how powerful jealousy can be, but don't be that person. Don't abuse it. Use jealousy wisely or else you will end up the jealous one.
Create A Connection
You have to interact and make a connection with someone to make them jealous first. This might seem like it's a no-brainer, but there are some people out there that are trying to make someone jealous and they are getting totally ignored. Why is that? Because the person that they are trying to make jealous doesn't even know they're alive. You can't make someone jealous if they have nothing to be jealous over.
The only way to create a connection is the start putting yourself out there. Start up some small talk, look at each other from across the room and smile, or just open yourself up a little. Once you create that, you can start building on it. For a good read check out our article, What Makes An Average Guy Instantly Become Hot, for tips on how to create a connection.
Getting Her Attention The Wrong Way
Jumping up and down saying "look at me!" and trying desperately to have her look your way does NOT work. Most people do this. They don't realize they're doing it, but it's there. Desperation can be smelled a mile away. Avoid it because you'll be looking like a fool.
#1 Technique: Ignoring Her
That's right. Ignoring her is the #1 technique. Most women loved to be adored and they're used to getting a lot of attention. They know they have that power and they know how to use it. If you take that power away from them, then they want to get it back. So they'll make all attempts to get it back.
The only thing with this technique is that you have to have some kind of connection with her. You could have been engaged in some small talk (and hopefully flirting with her at the same), maybe you caught eyes across the room and smiled at each other. That could also be a connection. It's very small, but at least there is something there. If you feel that there is some kind of attraction on her end, then just stay in viewing distance, but talk to other people and have a great time! If she is noticing where you're going or who you're going to talk to, this is drives women crazy.
Women like to be shown attention so it hurts a little that you aren't showing her the attention she wants. Sooner or later you do have to talk to her to try and not let the jealousy get out of hand or fade away. You have to know when to finally cash in and don't let it get away from you.
When you are trying to play the jealousy card don't forget the object of your obsession. Don't forget that SHE is the one you are trying to make jealous, not other girls. If you want jealousy to work keep in mind:
- Don't play jealousy tricks on women who are not interested in you
- Don't do it either with women who already like you more than a lot
Use jealousy only on indecisive women you want to attract and make sure those women know you, or else jealousy will be in vain. Keep your game up and soon enough women will be chasing you. From time to time, jealousy is the right medicine for the illnesses of love.
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