Using online dating websites is the most efficient way to meet new women, if done correctly. Three things will determine your success with internet dating.
- Persistence
- First messages sent to women (openers)
- Your profile
Success with women (especially online) is a numbers game. You must work the law of averages. You must be persistent when sending out messages to women and not let frustration cause you to get negative, bitter or quit.
Frustration can kill your chances with the ladies. But if you're persistent, consistent and remain positive, you'll hook up with several ladies via cyberspace.
The best thing about internet dating is that once you've connected with women online, and they want to meet up with you... roughly 1 out of 3 girls will get intimate with you on the first date.
Creating your online profile is the second important aspect. You must have photos on your profile. At least 3 photos. I suggest you have a non-smiling image as your main photo, then two or more of you with friends or doing something that you're passionate about.
PHOTO #1 - Use a non-smiling photo because studies have shown that women find men with a serious face, more physically attractive than a smiling/happy face.
That reminds me of a quote I once read:
"You can not be sexy if you smile, you can not be a rebel if you grin" - Elvis Presley
PHOTO #2 - Show a photo with you being social with friends. This will help women know that you're a normal guy with a social life. (Very important for online dating)
PHOTO #3 - Show you're doing something cool. A hobby or something you're passionate about. Keep the written section of your profile short, sweet and to the point. You want to hook girl's attention and get their curiosity going.
Avoid writing anything like this:
Hello, my name Jim. I like to travel, read books and go to bars. I'm new to online dating and I'm just here to try it out and see what happens
= boring. Unoriginal. Just like everyone else.
The three keys to online dating success is using interesting and unique message openers that cause women to write you back. The average guy on an internet dating site will message a hot girl and write something like this:
"Hey, what's up? I read your profile and I think you're hot. What's your name?"
= Boring! I'm just like everyone else.
You on the other hand sending out messages like this:
Why do you look familiar... ?
- Jim
(insert your first name)
This simple message is amazing because it:
- creates curiosity
- it's different
- it's short
- it's a question... causes her to answer your back
- you give her your first name
If you decide to use online dating, I suggest you message at least 10 new women each day for 30 straight days.
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