How to Flirt With Women - 3 Flirting Tips That Make It Seem Easy

Do the words, easy and flirting seem like a mismatch to you? Are you the kind of guy who finds it kind of difficult to flirt with a woman you like? If so, you are not alone. There are lots of men who feel the same exact way. However, there are also lots of guys who know what to do, and because they know what to do, it comes across as being easy to them. Wouldn't you like to be one of those guys who finds it easy to flirt with a woman you are attracted to?

Here are 3 tips that will make it seem easy to do:

1) Don't freeze up, be relaxed and calm.

The more relaxed you are, the better. When you feel like there is pressure on you to say the right thing or to make the perfect first impression - you are bound to feel like freezing up. So, don't put that pressure on yourself. You really don't have to make the perfect first impression, you just have to make a good one. The more relaxed you are, the more relaxed she is going to feel and you need her to feel that way if you are going to really make her feel like she is having a good time.

2) Try to get her talking about things that she likes to talk about.

Since so much of the flirting that goes on between men and women revolves around conversation, you want to get her talking about the things that she likes to talk about. When you focus on the things that she likes to discuss, you'll find that it is easier to make her feel like she can open up to you and keep the conversation going and that is definitely going to be a good thing.

3) Make use of more than just your words.

While a lot of the flirting is going to revolve around the conversation that you have with a woman, you don't want to ignore the other ways that you can flirt with her. Smiling is always a good thing as long as it doesn't look like you are smiling too much. Getting in a little incidental contact between you and her is also a good thing as long as it doesn't look like you are just out to cop a feel. Getting in the physical flirting is just as important as having a really good conversation with a woman.