The No Contact Rule - Remember That Absence Makes The Heart Grow Fonder

You may have already been told by someone that one of the better things that you can do for yourself after breaking up with a woman is to have no contact with her for awhile. That concept is often referred to as the no contact rule and while you might feel like that is a hard thing to do, you have to remember that absence does make the heart grow fonder and that is one of the things that you are going to be able to achieve if you are able to have a period of having no contact with your ex girlfriend.

Let's take a look at why that is, shall we:

If you were to ask just about any woman what the most annoying thing an ex boyfriend can do, most would say something to the effect of it being annoying when they feel like their ex boyfriend is trying too hard to stay in contact with them. They might talk about the frequent phone calls, they might talk about the ex boyfriend popping up at their job, things like that. If you abide by the idea of having no contact with your ex girlfriend, you won't have to worry about her having any of those complaints about you. That right there is more than enough to make you want to give it a try, at least I would think it would be more than enough.

The other thing that you will find if you talk to women about their ex boyfriends, is that the ones that they DO tend to remember fondly are the ones that they didn't have much contact with after the break up. And you'll notice that they tend to still have really good things to say about him, and that is what you want if you want to have a chance of being able to reconcile with your ex girlfriend later on.

As you can see, following the concept of having no contact with your ex girlfriend has a whole lot of upside to it and very little downside. One of the biggest mistakes that guys will make with an ex girlfriend is harassing her, even though they don't really think that is what they are doing. You do not want to cross that line, because once you do - you can't really go back. So, if you are wondering what you should do after a break up with a woman you were dating to stay on her good side and give you an opportunity to win her back later on, I'd say that abiding by the rule of no contact is one of the best things that you can do.