Germans, like people from any other country, they have their own culture and dating etiquette. Before you can make any German fall in love with you, you need to conform to their dating etiquette, whether you are dating online or face to face. The etiquette apply online because advance in technology has improved online dating to become almost the same as dating face to face. A couple who are dating online can now see and talk to each other live - through their computers connected to the internet.
If you are a man who is interested in meeting a German woman online, win her love and enjoy a beautiful, strong and long lasting relationship with her, you first have to register with a good German dating website. The website must be filled with thousands of single women from Germany and it must also be entirely safe to use. Next, complete your profile with absolute honesty. Germans in general take the words of people very serious and they hate lies. If your German date finds out that you lied on your profile, she will be deeply hurt and she will feel you have greatly disrespected her. You must say exactly what your height is, your eye colour, hair colour, weight, body type, etc. Make sure your physical details on your profile match with your photos to avoid confusing your profile visitors. This will increase the chances of getting replies to your messages as well as receiving new ones.
Furthermore, describe yourself into detail in the section of your profile called about me. Again, you have to be completely honest. Tell others who you really are, the qualities you have, what you do for fun, how you treat others, the kind of woman you are looking for, etc. It is likely your German date will lose every interest in you if she discovers that you are not who you said you were in this section of your profile. Try to upload only current photos to your profile because almost every single woman or man in Germany who is browsing people's profiles on a dating website thinks that all photos on all profiles are current. If you think an old photo of you is very attractive and you want to upload it to your profile, you must state clearly in the photo description, the date all your photos were taken. This way, your profile visitors will not confuse your old look with your current look.
Start searching for the woman of your choice after you have successfully completed your profile and you are sure that anyone who reads it will easily know the kind of person you really are. Use the quick search tool on the dating website to find women in your area who are within a specified age range. If you are looking for someone who has a particular physical feature or exhibits certain qualities, then the advanced search tool is for you. You may consider someone who speaks your language or someone who is willing to learn your language, else you have to learn German to be able to communicate effectively with your woman. Google has a good translator.
When you come across women who are worth taking the chance with, send each one of them a brief description about yourself. Ask them to take a look at your profile and let you know what they think of you. Do not be discouraged if you don't receive positive replies or you do not get a reply at all. You only fail when you give up; continue to search and send messages to women who can be very good marriage mates. If you do get some positive replies to your messages, assess each of the women and choose the one who will be best for you. Be sure she will be comfortable with sharing her personal details with you before you ask her any. Ask for her personal email address and phone number only after exchanging a reasonable number of messages that makes you certain that you are the kind of man she is looking for. The first email you send her must include your photos which she will keep for herself. She may also send you some of hers. Remember to be sincere if she asks you, or you want to tell her your opinion on her photos. Do not make any comments just to make her happy, when actually you think otherwise. She will feel very offended if she finds out that you didn't really mean what you said. You might lose your beautiful German woman because of this.
When you can, ask her if she could join you on Skype or on any software that supports video call. If both of you agree to meet for a video chat online at a particular time, make sure you are there before or exactly on time. Germans value time a lot. Arriving even five minutes late for an online date with a German woman means you do not respect her time. If you can't make it on time or you can't make it at all, try to explain to her before the time arrives and fix another date for the meeting. When both of you are able to meet online, you have the chance to ask her all about German culture and German dating etiquette. She will be very impressed by your interest in her culture and she will be more than happy to tell you all about it. Make use of the information she gives you and play by the rules of German dating. Don't be afraid to speak your mind on anything you are discussing; if your opinion is at least rational, she will have no problem with it.
Also, discuss things that concern yourselves. Talk about your families, your jobs, what you do for fun, music and movies you enjoy, your favourite foods, your favourite dressing styles, sports you enjoy, your ideas of a romantic time, what each of you look for in a partner, etc. She will most likely think that you have genuine interest in her if she is aware that you know a lot about her and you still want to continue dating her.
Finally, make plans to see each other face to face as soon as possible if you two realise that you get along very well online and you will make a perfect couple in real life.
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