5 Rules for Successful Text Messaging With a Girl

Finally you got her number, and now she is giving you a text message, or you want to send her a text. But, how can you make your text message attractive? How can you ask her to date via text message? How can you lead her curiosity toward you? Here are 5 rules for successful text messaging with a girl:

1. Don't bombard her with texts

Girls hate that. Girls hate possessive guy. They don't like being watched by you all the time. They don't like you to send her texts every hour. So, be sure to avoid sending her text messages too much. If you send the first text to her, be sure to wait for her to reply before you send another text. If you keep sending text with words like "Why don't you reply to my text?" it will only annoy her. See, people are busy, and she might be busy that she is unable to reply your message right away.

2. Don't be a needy

If you become a needy guy, you will turn her interest off. So, for example, if you send her a text and she's able to answer it within 5 minutes, be sure to send the text back to her in the same amount of time. You don't want to look needy. Don't reply her text right away. But, if she's giving you a fast reply, you need to be as fast as her. Don't delay your reply since it will be seen that you are not giving her proper attention.

3. Make it friendly and informal

Don't be too serious in your text. For instance, you don't need to tell her that you love her so much in your text. It isn't necessary. Tell her that when you meet her. When you exchange text messages, you should be friendly and keep it informal. You should even make it playful; just a small talk, a little conversation. Sometimes, you need to shorten your words.

4. Don't text all day long

Sometimes, many guys are too much attached with their text messages that they are forgetting that they should ask her out. If you're conversing with her over text for a long time, she might eventually lose interest on you. Instead you should limit your text to her and start asking her out. You can't text her forever, do you? You have to move out. Invite her to meet up with you after exchanging texts with her for some time. Don't delay.

5. Your conversation starter matters

Don't write text like this: "Hello, it's me! I want to talk to you." This is not a good conversation starter for a text message. Instead, choose a line that will easily build interesting short conversation with her. Write it like this: "Your performance last night was really wonderful. How did you learn the dance move?" This type of opening will get her engaged from the first time she receives a text message from you.

Those are the rules that you should follow when you're sending text message to a girl. Remember that the content of your text is really important. So, follow the rules and you'll have a success with it.