Getting Back With Your Ex - Give Your Relationship A Second Chance

Are you looking for sure-fire methods to get back with your ex?

For the past few months, your relationship had been going through a rough patch. Communication had ceased. You no longer opened your heart to your partner. Days were filled with constant unexplained arguments. Not only this, you sensed that your boyfriend or girlfriend did not display the same affection and understanding he or she did earlier; there was something else on their mind. When things got worse, instead of talking it out, you both decided to walk out of the relationship. A relationship of months and years crumbled in a matter of a few minutes.

Sometimes a break-up in a relationship is justified. However, in most cases break-ups are a result of trivial issues. Such relationships deserve a second chance and can be mended provided you give them a chance.

So, how are you going to resolve things and be successful at getting back with your ex? You can find out below.

Clues to indicate you should not work at getting back with an ex

• Trust is the main element in any healthy relationship. If your boyfriend or girlfriend has betrayed your trust in the past, it may be a hint you should not reconsider reviving this relationship.


• You can try to re-establish communication with your ex, but if he or she does not respond favorably, it implies you should move on.


• If your ex does not intend to improve the things that happened between the two of you, to learn from mistakes or change for the better, it is a sign that this relationship is better ended.


• Abuse should not be tolerated at all. If you walked out of a relationship because your ex was physically, mentally or emotionally abusive, I strongly advise that you wrap up your past relationship and move on.

Tips on getting back with your ex

• You will have to start with self grooming. Be neat and tidy in your appearance. Dress well. Be confident about what you do and how you look. Working on yourself will make you look attractive and be a good distraction as you overcome your grief. You should project a better public self image and try to show that you are not needy.


• The next step to getting back together with your ex boyfriend or girlfriend is reflection of your past relationship. Think about how things were and what lead to this break-up. If it was your attitude or a specific personality trait that caused problems, you can change and make improvements.


• Wait for a few weeks before you re-establish communication with your ex. You can contact your ex informally either by means of an email, text message or instant message.


• Decide on a day when you can meet each other in person. On the day of the meeting dress up in clothes that your ex liked and wear his or her favorite perfume. Your aim should be to look prim, proper and appealing.


• Your attitude, talk and actions should be casual but not the "I don't care"type. After a few meetings over a cup of coffee, lunch or dinner, you could broach the subject of your break-up. You can probably reconcile and ask for forgiveness for any of your actions that caused trouble in your past relationship.


• Instead of pushing him or her to get back together, start by being good friends. Indulge in activities you enjoyed doing as a couple. It will bring back past memories and you'll get closer.


• Finally, when you think that the time is right, you can go ahead and ask your partner about the possibilities of getting back together. If they agree, fantastic! You can work at cementing and strengthening your relationship. However, you should also be prepared for the worst. It is not certain that your ex will respond positively. If they don't want to rekindle the relationship, it is OK; you can continue to be good friends.