A lot of men don't really every outgrow that feeling that they want to be able to get things right so that they know that a woman is going to say yes to going on a date with them if they ask her out. Since they feel that way, they usually end up avoiding those chances where they are not really sure if the woman is going to agree to going on a date with them and if you do that, you end up severely limiting the possibilities that you have for getting dates because you are going to avoid situations that might have turned out okay for you had you just parlayed things the right way and actually asked the woman out.
Here are 3 things that are going to help you get her to say yes if you want to ask a woman out on a date so you won't have any excuses for not asking:
1) The first thing that is going to help you out if you want to ask a woman out on a date is that you are going to have to work on building some kind of rapport with her first.
Just walking up to a woman you don't know at all or barely know and asking for a date without any kind of a warm up is not going to be that effective at all. It might work like that if you are some famous celebrity that she already is familiar with and secretly has a crush on, but if you are just a normal guy looking to get a date, you have to make sure that she feels rapport with you first.
2) The second thing that is going to help you land that date with a woman is that you have to give her a glimpse of having a good time with you.
There isn't much appeal for a woman to say yes to dating you if she doesn't feel like going out with you is going to equate to her having a good time. If she has to choose between staying home and watching some television and going out with a guy she thinks is going to be a bore, she is probably going to choose the tube and stay at home. Give her a glimpse of having a good time with you before you ask her out by making her laugh or being a little bit playful with her.
3) Finally, if you want to hear a woman say yes to dating you, you are going to have to ask without making it awkward.
Ever hear a guy ask a woman out when he can barely muster the words together? It's not pleasant to observe and it probably isn't pleasant for the woman to experience. You have to ask her out, otherwise you are not going to get a date with her, and it has to come out smoothly without much of any hesitation or awkwardness on your part. Otherwise, you'll probably hear her say, "Thanks, but no thanks."
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