Gift Giving: Its the Thought That Counts

Actions speak louder than words!

A small gift or thoughtful gesture shows your partner just how much you care and it can boost your relationship to a new level... But knowing what to get or what to do can be tricky, especially in a new relationship! Read on to discover how to pick the perfect "thinking of you" gift.

First of all, you need to make sure the gift matches the stage of your relationship. If you're in the beginning stages of a relationship, expensive jewelry or something too extravagant can be uncomfortable. Even if it's not a strain on your budget, an over-the-top gift is a bit overwhelming for the recipient... and the whole point of a gift is to make the other person feel special, not awkward! A small gesture is much more appropriate for a budding relationship, and the thought alone will be worth a million bucks to him or her.

Also, keep in mind thatgifts don't always have to be material! Has your special someone mentioned how much they love a good lasagna? Invite them over and make your grandmother's famous recipe. The gesture of simply remembering a personal fun fact and putting it to use is a wonderful gift... even if it's not wrapped up in a bow.

And remember, gifts for no particular reason are the best kind. Gifts around the holidays or on a birthday are expected, but a nice surprise on a random Tuesday is particularly special. A "thinking of you" gift (no matter how small) can speak volumes!

Looking to do something special for your sweetie? Here are just a few ideas (and a few things to avoid) to send the perfect message.

If you've just started dating and you're in that grey area of the relationship, a good rule of thumb: something you don't have to wrap!

• You can never go wrong with a romantic home-cooked dinner!
• Tickets to see a favorite comedian, concert or show
• Wine enthusiast? Bring a special bottle from your favorite winery to your next dinner date... or surprise them with a day trip to a winery.
• Homemade treats
• AVOID expensive, extravagant gifts like fine jewelry. It's just too much pressure for a new relationship!
• AVOID a gift that's more about your enjoyment than the other person's. For example, don't get her two tickets to a big boxing match and frame it as a "gift" (unless she's actually expressed interest). If a gift is mostly in your interest, it will be obvious.

If you've been dating for a while now and you are in an exclusive, committed relationship: Go ahead! Get him that nice watch, buy her that fancy jewelry, or go on that exotic vacation.

But if you want to do something extra personal and special, just pay a little extra attention! Hints and clues will surely be dropped in conversation, and you'll find plenty of gift inspiration. Going the extra mile and giving a thoughtful gift is always appreciated!