Tuesday, May 29, 2012

The Ultimate Way to Get a Man to Commit

Are you exhausted from trying to get a man to commit to you for life? Have you been searching high and low for the ultimate solution to get a man to commit? If so, you're surely not alone. The common "get a man to commit" is as old as time --- well at least as old as man.

Now you're probably thinking, "Well if women have been trying to get a man to commit for hundreds and hundreds of years now, why hasn't some relationship guru come up with a solution that is guaranteed to get him to want to do this on his own?"

I'll be the first to say - you've got a good point there! The main obstacle that stands in the way when trying to find a solution for this problem is the fact that we are dealing with human beings here. There are no two alike and every man needs to be dealt with in a slightly different way. If men were robots (with all of the same hardwiring) we could easily put this problem into extinction!

Before you start thinking, "Well this is depressing... I'll never get a man to commit!", let me tell you that there is HOPE! Yes, light at the end of the "commitment" tunnel!

During all of my years as a relationship therapist, I've seen a pattern in men that have commitment issues. After compiling information on commitment issues and talking to hundreds of men, I've found the best way to get 99% of men to commit. Yes, there could be that one man out there that is impossible to coerce into a committed relationship - but you're luck isn't that bad - right?

Take a look at the following SECRET that can be used to get your special man to want to commit:

#1 Communicate About Commitment

Now this may seem like an obvious way to get him to commit, but it is actually the number one thing that women fail to do when trying to get their man to commit to marriage.

The first step in communicating with your significant other about possible commitment issues within your relationship is to become confident in your feelings for your man. The absolute worst thing that you can do to a man that has a fear of commitment is to finally get him to overcome his issue and then have you decide that he isn't the one you want to spend the rest of your life with. This is very important, so be sure that you are ready for your man to commit before you begin this process.

After you've confirmed your feelings for him, set up a time where the two of you can sit down and have a discussion in private. Make sure that it is a comfortable place free of distractions. Start the conversation out by expressing how you feel for your man. Again, in order to get a man to commit - he must know that you feel the same way about him as he does you.



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