Do you want to learn some no fail ways to get a man's attention and keep him interested in you? Do you wonder how other women make it look so easy to attract guys all the time? Would you like to be able to create a first impression that totally wows a guy? If things haven't been going so well in the attracting guys department, maybe you need to change some things up. The good part is that if you change things to get a man's attention, chances are those changes will help you keep his attention too.
#1 - Look A Little Extra-Perky Everyday
You can get a man's attention by being attractive and you don't have to look like a prom queen to do it. Although guys enjoy looking at beautiful women, they may not enjoy the pressure of going out with one, so just do your best with your appearance and don't feel that you're not measuring up.
Wearing clothes that you feel good in and avoiding too much make-up will give you lots of confidence. Men find confident women very appealing and if he finds you appealing, he'll be paying attention.
Don't call attention to your flaws. Chances are he might not even notice that your hair needs a cut if you don't point it out to him. But if you point the flaws out, he can't help but notice. Being negative and putting yourself down are not good ways of making yourself appealing to a man.
#2 - Learn To Accept Compliments
Something that goes along with this is learning to accept compliments. It's sometimes easier to put yourself down than to believe that a compliment could possibly be true. It's better to say thanks and change the subject if you must, than to pretend nothing was said.
Highlight your good points. If you have a killer smile or huge sparkly eyes, make sure to emphasize these attributes. If you have a great sense of humor, make sure he sees that side of you. Remember; he'll see what you direct him to see and notice what you direct him to notice, so be sure these are the right things.
#3 - Learn To Give Compliments
Take the time to talk to a guy about his interests and even throw him a compliment to show you're paying attention to him too. A great way to get his attention is to pay attention. If he knows you're listening to what he's saying instead of looking around the room to see who else you can talk to, he'll be more interested in spending time with you too.
#4 - Let Him Figure You Out Nicely And Slowly
Finally, the best way to get a man's attention is to hold something back. If you can grab his interest with a little mystery, he'll have to tune in for another episode to find out more about you.
Want to learn more about how to catch -- and KEEP -- a man's attention and affections? Then I'd love to help you!
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