Saturday, May 12, 2012

Signs That You're Still Not Over Her

As the saying goes, wounds heal in time. Of course, this is something you may actually say a lot to provide consolation to your friends and loved ones who have undergone some heartbreak. Relationships are a normal part of everyday living. We get to witness so many of our friends seemingly happy spending time with the ones they're in love with, appreciating their presence in their lives and making it seem as if nothing could ever go wrong. You would also experience this in your own way, having met someone a while back who has turned your life around for the better.

However, not all is what it seems. Things turn ugly between you two, and you end up feeling frustrated over the sudden end of your relationship. You feel as if your world's about to end, and you don't want to carry on with this rather frustration emotion you carry around in your chest. Yet, there's still a part of you who wishes her back. Of course, this is normal. Yet, if many weeks and months have passed by and you still find yourself with the inability for moving on, it will be quite difficult to function properly in society. Below are some signs that indicate you're still not over your ex:

  • You may find yourself visiting her Facebook page every now and then. You always check out her profile page and see if there are any updates made. You start to feel rather sour in your chest whenever you see her having some fun with some other guy in her photo albums. This is a story that's all too common with grieving individuals who still have some feelings for their exes. You wouldn't want to admit it, but you're stalking her on Facebook.

  • You still keep all the gifts she has bought and you cherish them endlessly. All these things she may have given you still hold a special place somewhere in your chest. As endearing as this may sound, you're not exactly doing yourself any favors here. You're just prolonging your agony and making it difficult for yourself to get over her. If you haven't thrown them away, or even keep them in full display on your cabinets and shelves, you are most definitely not over her in any way at all.

  • You constantly put her as the focus of your fantasies. You still think about what it would've been like to be with her for much longer, reminiscing on all the things you did together and the things you could've done. This is a sure-fire sign of you still pining for her and a pretty obvious indication of the need for moving on.

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