Alright, so you have the art of conversation (in real life) down pat - but when it comes to "texting" her you are at a complete loss as to how to be funny, develop attraction, and keep it interesting. Furthermore, many of you are thinking, "How do I get a woman to text me or call me?" It's really not as hard as it seems. You just need to know which buttons to push. That's why I'm going to give you the fundamentals of how to text a woman to give you greatest chance of getting her attention and a response - every time you do!
Tip 1: Keep the challenge and mystery alive
Now, I know that it may be tempting to bear your soul to her in a super long text message but leave really deep and meaningful conversations for the real life dates. For example, if she asks you a question about something you said, you can tell her she will just have to "wait and see", or that "she will have to earn it". This will help keep a woman on her toes and excited about the next time she gets to see you, or even the next time that you text her. It's also important to keep changing things up. Move from serious conversations to lighter conversations; long texts to short texts; you can even vary the time it takes for you to message her back so it keeps her guessing and interested.
Tip 2: Text her about topics she's interested in
Now there are at least three ways to do that. One way is to pick something she is interested in. If she likes astronomy, you could make a comment in your text about an upcoming astronomy event, like a meteor shower, an eclipse, the position of a planet, or an activity at a local observatory.
Another way to sound interesting is to make a comment about something women are generally interested in. Comments about relationships, celebrities, communication, family, or food are just a few ideas.
A final way to sound interesting is to tell her a little something about you, but leave out the details. Like, "After I saw Kim Kardashian today, I stopped by Kerri's Pizza because it is my favorite pizza place." Now she is left wondering why you saw Kim Kardashian, where she was, if you got her autograph, what she was wearing, and so forth.
Tip 3: Evoke her curiosity
You can ask her a question about herself she might not have been asked before. In general, women are curious about why people do what they do. Asking her something like, "Have you ever walked into a room and forgotten why you walked in there and you were sober?" That might get her thinking and laughing.
Another way to spark her curiosity is to bring up something positively emotional. Again, relationships are one way to do it. This could be telling her about something that happened with you and a pet, or perhaps something funny that your sister or niece did. It could be something like, "Yesterday, I was playing horsy with my niece. We played for over an hour and now my quads are so sore I can barely walk. Who needs the gym when you have a 7 year old niece?"
Another way to get her curious is to ask her a question about how things are related - which also entices her to be more participative in the texting conversation. An example of a fun question might be, "What's the difference between Kristen Stewart and an Emo Teenager? I really can't tell". A more insightful question could be, "Why do you think women and men date the same people over and over again?" If she likes to be insightful and thoughtful about relationships, this could spark her curiosity.
Now, I admit that these little tips are simple - but don't let the simplicity fool you. When you take some time to practice these tips, integrate them into your texting conversations and use them simultaneously with each other you just might surprise yourself with the results.
So, go on. Give it a go!
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