How Make A Man Want To Be With You - A Simple Technique That Only 20% Of All Women Know

Are you feeling lonely and unloved? Are you wondering why it seems so difficult to make a man want to be with you? Would you like to know what you can do to be more appealing and desirable? Life can be very difficult for a woman who yearns to be involved in a loving relationship but finds herself on the outside looking in. To make a man want to be with you, it will take a lot more than a pretty face and a sexy body. It's more about how you are as a person than about how you look.

The First Mistake Most Women Make

Your first mistake might be thinking that a man wants a woman who depends on him for everything and is always available at his beck and call. Maybe years ago this was an attractive feature for a woman, but not any more. Now this is almost the opposite of the ideal woman for a man.

Men tend to shy away from women who are sending out these signals. Basically, they just want to have fun while they get to know you. They want to share things with a woman, not control things. They are not looking to be "the be all and the end all" to a woman.

Having old-fashioned values is one thing, but acting in this old-fashioned way doesn't work in today's world. In fact, it can be the fastest way to make a man disappear.

How Smart Women Avoid This Mistake

So if that's not it, what's a girl to do? Well to make a man want to spend time and get to know you, you have to learn to be less needy and dependent.

Start right now by working to become a more independent person in all areas of your life. Have a life that exists outside of anything you may share with a man. That means that you have your own friends and you spend time doing things with them. This helps you become more attractive to a man in a couple of ways.

First, your interaction with other people will make you more interesting to him as a person in your own rite. Second, he'll feel less pressured to have to spend all his free time with you. A guy likes to hang out with his friends and if he feels that he shouldn't, he may soon start to resent you.

You also need financial independence so that you are free to make your own decisions and have your own money to spend. If you invite him out to dinner, it's not great if he has to pick up the tab.

And a career may be better than a job because you'll probably find it more interesting and stimulating. A job is often just a way to earn a paycheck. So having a career adds that extra little bit of cachet which is a great way to keep him interested.

Avoid This Mistake, Avoid 80% Of All Other Common Dating Mistakes

A lot of what it takes to make a man want to be with you comes down to becoming more appealing and desirable. A good way to get there is to be your own person.

Want to learn more about being your own person, and making all the men you meet want to spend more time with you? Then I'd love to help you!

This article is brought to you by PERSONALS.