Unfortunately, we live a world where the media likes to blast us with images of super skinny, fake-boobed, gorgeous looking models. We see them on magazine covers, in movies, television shows and even online. As a result, many women feel that they have to live up to these standards, and assume that most guys won't touch them if they don't look like that picturesque image of "woman".
1. A Few Extra Pounds
Think you have to look like a model? This couldn't be any further from the truth. Let's take the example of girls who are concerned about their weight. If you feel that you are a little tubby, lose weight because you want to, not because you think guys will find you more attractive.
The interesting truth is that most men actually prefer women with big hips, a little baby fat, soft, round bellies and so forth. Psychologically this works on so many levels.
Guys view women with curves as being perfect for baring children. It's a basic mating instinct. And by curves I don't mean massive breasts or huge butts, although most guys describe this as the cherry on top, but not a necessity.
A woman who is a little heavier may also stimulate good feelings of maturity, nurturing and natural health. It's safe to say that most guys view a woman who is a little overweight in her own eyes as a sign of health.
2. Tom Boys
Not all guys like the Tom boy appeal, but most men do find great desire for women who have one key trait that Tom boys also have in common. Self-assertiveness.
Men commonly appreciate a woman who is comfortable in her own skin and displays a great sense of self confidence. Confidence is naturally attractive to both genders, and even for those that feel they have low self esteem, developing confidence is actually a learned mechanism... meaning anyone can do it!
Remember that all guys love a challenge. It's what makes them tick. A guy can't resist a woman that he feels is out of his league. Surprisingly, it's not just looks that convey this feeling to a man. It can actually be the one who he feels "won't give herself up so easily", and often times when a man and this type of woman fall in love with each other, it's a very healthy relationship.
3. Unique Trademarks
Call them quirks if you will, but every person should have something that they can be known for. Surprisingly, it's these odd little habits that some guys find irresistible. It can be a strange laugh, snorting during laughter, a cute way that you say something, odd gestures, strange facial habits, these are the kinds of things that can get under a guys skin (in a good way) and drive him crazy.
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