What To Say To Your Ex After The No Contact Period

I feel that this will be one of the most important posts that I will create about how you can get your ex girlfriend back. It is vital that you actually completed the 30 day no contact phase otherwise this information is meaningless. Knowing exactly what to say or more importantly how to say it will determine whether or not you and your ex will get back together. In this article I will teach you everything you need to know about it.

Ideally your ex will have been the one to actually initiate contact again with you. Usually after going for 30 days of no contact it causes powerful emotional triggers inside a woman's mind and this means that it's highly likely she is the one making the call.

First of all I will deal with the most important aspect of your initial contact with your ex, regardless of who made the call, and that is your mental and emotional state. You should be well on the way to getting your life back on track after the breakup and even making it better! Whether it's having fun with friends, performing better at work, success in your hobby or whatever leading a good life means to you. If she calls you and you are not in a good emotional or mental state make sure you keep your answers very brief! There is a chance you will read too much into the conversation and act needy thereby destroying your chances of getting her back.

Let's assume she calls you first, which is ideal, you should be slightly be surprised be her call. If not, then act it. Your conversation should be fun and upbeat. You should not be talking about meeting up with her again at this stage. You should just be aiming to create a good vibe between the two of you again. You can talk a bit about your life but never go into too much detail because when you do it's like you are trying to prove yourself to her which is a needy insecure behaviour.

If you call her, which I frown upon, then much of the information above applies to you as well. You need a positive state of mind and be well on your way to getting your life back to normal. What you say is not as important as how you say it provided that you are in the right emotional state. This should mean that you are not immediately looking to jump back into a relationship with her but you are just being a cool guy who is getting on with his life and enjoying it.

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