A healthy relationship cannot start if you have trouble at the beginning. The old saying that you don't have a second chance to make a first impression is very true when it comes to getting the girl. Unfortunately, all too often the mistakes men make are actually rather small and preventable if you show a little awareness. Here are the Top 5 mistakes guys make when trying to get the girl.
1. Keep Mum About Previous Relationships: Unless you want to end your current relationship, do not under any circumstances bring up previous relationships. Even if it makes a real funny story, you should never talk about your past loves as this only interferes in the current relationship you are currently in. Bringing up past events is placing your memories above your feelings for her, so keep your lips sealed and hide all your photos of the past girlfriends.
2. Cloning: Men and women often meet at bars, clubs or other social gatherings. Yes, you can meet them at work as well. In order to attract the attention of a girl you have to set your own style. This does not mean you have to dress like a freak or wear something outlandish. Simply notice what your friends are wearing, especially the group of guys you hang out with and make a subtle change. Perhaps a small upgrade in your slacks, jacket, and shirts can help you stand out. Bottom line, you don't want to look like all your friends, so stand out a bit.
3. Bragging: While you may be proud of what you have accomplished, it's better if the girl finds that out for herself rather than having you brag about it. Bragging denotes being self absorbed which translates to "I care more about myself that you". Girls do not like playing second fiddle to guys who are obsessed with what they have done. Show a little humbleness and let her see the expensive cars and beautiful home without telling her about it first.
4. Ask, Don't Assume: One of the biggest mistakes men make is assuming what your lady wants rather than asking her. If you are getting another drink, ask if she wants one as well, don't just bring her another. If you are ordering dinner, ask her what she wants. Unless she tells you otherwise, it's always better to ask first and let her make the decisions for herself.
5. Keep Your Word: If you say you are going to do something, then do it. Reliability is one of the strengths women look for in men. It's far better to say you are NOT going to do something that might make her mad now, than saying you will and don't. Keeping your word shows honesty, commitment and demonstrates how you feel about her. Women tend to overlook a lot about men, keeping your word will help keep you in good standing.
These are five of the many mistakes guys make when trying to get the girl, so if you can follow these five tips you are well on your way to landing the girl of your dreams.
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