Tuesday, August 7, 2012

Understanding What Attracts Women to Men and Being an Attractive Alpha-Male

They say that women can "sniff out" a confident man from a group of men. It is this characteristic of all women that make men so conscious in front of them. Women tend to focus on micro and macro details of a person's character and personality.

What attracts women to men? Research has indicated that men should develop more personality traits to attract women. Conventionally, men have thought that bulging biceps, six pack abdomens, a sports car, and plenty of cash are the perfect attractors to entice and charm women. Obviously, these characteristics and possessions can have their value in attracting women, perhaps only to them but not the owner. Women may choose to be with a man who is well-endowed with these so as to experience these things. However, many women will only love men for certain unique aspects of their personality.

The following is a useful compilation of what attracts women to men.

Confidence

People tend to be insecure and women by nature may feel insecure more so than a man. They can have so many insecurities surrounding them. They want to be with men who are able to naturally convey a sense of security or show the ability of providing security. If you want a woman of your dreams, you have to learn to inculcate self-belief. Even if you don't have it naturally, feign it. Hypnotize yourself into believing you are a confident person. By doing this, you slowly start to become one. In so doing, you can emit an aura which suggests that you can make a woman feel secure and up your attractiveness to women.

Goals and ambition

Clear and focused ambition is what attracts women to men. Even though they may never explicitly state it, women are ambitious. They may not have the resources or opportunities to fulfill it. At least they want their men to acquire or attain such ambitions and desires for them.

Physical appearance

Your physical appearance is equated to good genes. It also indicates the type of genes your offspring will have. A woman gauges your physical appearance based on this. They want to; even unconsciously but intuitively, have healthy offspring. And if you don't have "good genes" as per their perception, you don't qualify as an ideal mate.

Being physically appealing means that minimally, you should look fit and well. This is not to say that you need to be toned and buffed like a champion body builder. But having a healthy look helps, lots. You should have a clean and presentable appearance always. Dress well, and spend some money, time, and effort on personal grooming.

Humor

This is one endearing quality what attracts women to men. Humor is perceived in various ways by women. It could indicate that you are trustworthy, sexy, intelligent, and exciting. You can be humorous in multiple ways. You may be an action comedian, or be good at one- liners. But just keep them coming.

Playing a musical instrument

Interestingly, it has been reported that women have found men who played musical instruments incredibly attractive. So if you want to impress women, take up some music classes and learn a musical instrument. Even better would be to take up singing classes. Women love it when their men can croon beautiful numbers, especially in a romantic setting.

Being musical is what attracts women to men. It indicates that a man has a positive, creative, and emotional outlook towards life.

Care free attitude

Having a carefree but not a careless attitude is incredibly attractive. If you are a person who lives life caring less about what others think, then you have a great chance of attracting the dames. Your carefree attitude is equated to confidence and a sense of security you have in yourself. But if you are careless, this could wreak havoc or sabotage your attraction levels to the ladies.



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