So you've met someone new. Perhaps it was online, at work or out with friends last weekend. You've exchanged a few text messages or phone calls, and have set plans for your first date. This date will tell a lot about your possible feature relationship. If it goes well, it could be the first of many memories together, but otherwise it's back to the dating pool for you. But is there a way to tell how well the first date is really going? Here we have 10 rock solid signs that she's into you. Many of these women do without even thinking about it. So if you can learn to ready these signs, you'll be ahead of the game. If you receive at least 3 of these, then rest assured. She's into you.
1- Constant Smiling
Our desire to smile is controlled on a deep physiological level. She'll have a hard time not smiling if she's having a good time.
2- Extended Eye Contact
If she constantly looks you in the eye while talking or makes extended eye contact, that is a clear sign of her interest in you. It shows she's captivated in you and what you have to say.
3- Plays with Her Hair
This is something many people have heard before, but it's still just as true. This is sort of a subconscious reflex. If a girl constantly plays with her hair on the date it's a sign that she's nervous or excited (or hopefully both). If she's a little nervous on your first date, take that as a positive sign. It means she likes you and wants it to go well. If she's far to relaxed or nonchalant, that could be a bad omen.
4- She Gestures a Lot When She Talks
Similar to playing with her hair, it's also a very positive sign if she gestures a lot with her hands while talking. This is a subconscious way of trying to emphasize what she's saying. It shows you that she's excited to be talking to you.
5- Leans in While Talking To You
While your chatting, notice if she leans in towards you when she speaks. It's an especially good sign if she leans and gestures a lot when talking. This is her wanting to grab your attention and trying to make what she's saying more interesting and exciting.
6- Laughs at Even Your Worst Jokes
Turns out that you might not be as funny as you though. If a girl is really into you, she'll laugh at even some of your worst jokes. It's not even so much that she's being fake, because here reason might go a little deeper than that. Whey you like someone, you're subconsciously predisposed to want to like what they say and do. So it's more of a case that she wants to like you're jokes than she actually thinks you're the next Jerry Seinfeld.
7- Positive Body Language
According to research done by UCLA professor Albert Mehrabian, only about 7% of communication comes from the words we say. Around 38% is based on our tone of voice, and a whopping 55% from our body language. Wow, that means there's a lot going on besides what she's saying. Plus a lot of her body language happens without her thinking about it. So that means if you pay attention, you can get a pretty good read as to what she's thinking on your date.
8- Touches Your Arm to Emphasize Her Points
Whenever a girl initiates physical contact, it's always a good sign. Whether it's a subtle touch while she's talking, playfully punching you on the arm or even thumb wrestling. If she initiates some type of physical contact, then take that as an indication of interest on her part.
9- Pays You A Compliments
A big part of a first date is getting to know each other. If while you're talking she pays you a legitimate complement on something, that's a good sign. But don't let it go to your head, because it might be that she's just being nice. However, if this complement is coupled with other indications of interest from this list, then it's a very positive sign.
10- Asks When You Two Are Going To See Each Other Again.
This may seem like sort of a no-brainer, but there's more to this that meets the eye. Most women want the guy to peruse them and initiate future dates. It makes them feel desired and special when the guy chases after them. So if she's hinting at or asking about seeing you again, then that's a very good sign.
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