I am happy to tell you some things you need to know and practise in other to make your relationship a better one and once you can be able to know all this and practise them believe me you will Enjoy your relationship, without wasting time here are the list of 9 things you need to know in your relationship;
1. LOVE: In a relationship love is very important, you must love your partner though this days some people pretend to love while they are not but due to their selfish interest they claim to love, so in a Good relationship LOVE should be the first consideration
In my next article, I will be teaching you how to know true love so that you don't be deceived by anybody.
2. CARING AND KIND: In other to make your relationship work you need to be caring and kind to your partner, we all know that no one is perfect in life but once you as a man or woman love your partner and have the desire to make him/her happy you will always do better because no one does it perfect.
ways to be caring and kind to your partner:
- Always check on her/his face to know when things is not normal with her/him or when there is a burden in his/her heart.
- surprise her/him with gift and Roses, with this he/she will feel happy and loved.
- Always be a companion to your partner, don't make her/him feel alone always be there for her/him etc.
3. GOOD UNDERSTANDING: You must have Good understanding in other to make your relationship work and last as you wish, we all know that no matter how deeply love is there must be a misuderstanding in one way or the other because we are different in characters but the question is can you be able to understand your partner? Well i might answer Yes you can, all you need to do is always be wise try to find out how your partner behaves and try to be tolerant in some cases or matters don't always be right try to admit your mistakes.
4. OBEDIENCE: Try to be humble to your partner and respect his or her wishes, being humble to your partner will help your relationship work smoothly and perfectly.
5. EXPRESSION: You must be able to express your feelings and love to your partner don't hind it in your heart, we normally believe in the word (seeing is believing) let her/him know that you truly love him or her and how you feel being in love with someone like him/her.
- On the contrary Expression is not only involved in sharing your feelings but also try to be able to share your problems and burdens with him or her because problem shared is problem solved.
6. FORGIVENESS Forgiveness is very essential in a relationships you need to be able to forgive one another in other to keep the relationship going because as i said before no one is perfect and in a relationship misunderstanding is common and in other to overcome it you must be able to forgive when necessary.
7. SELFISHNESS: To maintain a Good relationship you must not include your personal and unnecessary heart desires.
8. DON'T BE TOO DEMANDING: In a relationship you must be careful in what you request from your partner don't make your partner believe you love him or being with him/her because of what you stand to gain from him or her though I don't mean you can't ask or request for anything but be careful by given it a long space after making a request before requesting for another one, always be real to your partner and demand for something when necessary, be reasonable when your request is not yet available.
9. INCLUDE GOD IN YOUR RELATIONSHIPS: In other to maintain and be happy in your relationship or in your marital love life you need to make God your author of you life, he will help you differentiate between the Good and Bad and he will also lead you to the right direction, with him nothing is impossible he holds the key of your life and relationship he can make it work out for you.
Once you believe and practice all this your relationship will work perfectly and smoothly.
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