How To Talk To A Girl - 3 Things Never To Say To A Woman You Just Met

Ever wondered how to talk to a girl the right way? Let me guess -- you may be a naturally shy guy, or you might have said some things that turned off women in the past. The good news is that you can instantly improve your "game" simply by avoiding these 3 mistakes.

#1 - Never Call Her Up Too Soon

Here's a question: When you get a woman's number, should you call her up? Of course you should -- but NOT too soon! You'll want to wait around 1-2 days after getting her number before you make the call.

Why? Because when you call too soon, she might think you're desperate -- and that's not good. You'll want to give her a bit of excitement and anticipation. You'll want her to wonder: "Is he going to call soon?"

Here's a tip: You'll want your first call to be pleasantly unexpected. This also goes for your text and e-mail messages.

#2 - Never Joke About Sex Too Early

Some men, when they're with an attractive woman they've just met, try to "push things along" by joking and hinting about a relationship -- or worse, sex.

And that's crazy, because unless she's a sex kitten who doesn't really care much for commitment, she'll think you're crazy!

But at the same time, you don't want to be too safe. You don't want to come off as too timid and polite, or she might get bored of you pretty quickly. (Sadly, nice guys DO finish last in the dating game.

So what's the middle ground? Instead of being too polite or too forward, just focus on having fun. Focus on giving her a good time. Be playfully arrogant, joking around and teasing her lightly. If she laughs and pouts at you, you're on the right track.

#3 - Never Ask Her Out Directly

Normally, asking a woman out is the proper way of setting up a date. But these days, with the TV culture and the current low point in social values, women are typically jaded. And when some new guy asks them out, they think: "I wonder what he's up to?"

So instead of asking her out, INVITE her out. Let her know that you're going somewhere and she's free to tag along. For instance: "Hey, how's it going? I'll be stopping by the Starbucks in your area tonight. Want to meet up for a chat?"

Such an invitation is more likely to get you a "yes" than directly asking her out. After all, who can say "no" to free coffee? To learn more about women and how to make them like you more, follow the links below!