Whether newly on the market, long-term single, divorced or widowed; dating over 50 can be overwhelming. It feels like the number of fish in the sea are dwindling and you're never going to meet a decent catch, right? Wrong.
Dating over 50 is becoming increasingly popular thanks to the wonderful world of internet dating. Sitting in the comfort of your own home, you can connect with millions of fellow singles from around the world that you would never otherwise meet. But how do you make your 50 plus dating experience successful?
Here are some tips and facts about over 50 dating to help kick-start your internet dating journey.
• Use Your Wisdom Wisely. Whatever your past, you are guaranteed to have learnt many lessons along the way; use your knowledge about others and yourself to figure out exactly what you want. Be realistic and firm on your expectations of what you want in a partner; you've had a few years to discover what makes you tick and what you will not put up with, so make a list of essentials you require in a person and a list of definite no-no's and stick by it! Don't settle for less, however, always be prepared to compromise on the little things; no one is perfect!
• Ooze Confidence. The world of internet dating is a brutal place so it's no time to be shy. Let friends, family and even work colleagues know that you are looking to meet someone special and be prepared to put yourself out there 100%. Say, "Yes" and go to that party, go on that blind date, join a club, volunteer at a shelter. The more you get out and about the more people you will meet and the more confident you will become!
• Look The Part. Take control of social situations and ease away your worries by maintaining eye contact, listening fully, interacting with the person and showing genuine interest in what they have to say. Ask your date interesting questions and make sure you have something to say in return; there's nothing wrong with pre-planning some questions, answers and fun stories about yourself if it will help to ease your nerves.
• Relax. Don't treat your date like an interview; have fun! Remember, even the worst dates are very useful as you learn more about other people, yourself and what you do and don't like. Treat each date individually and never judge on prior experiences; the more dates you go on the better you will be at them!
Internet dating is so successful for over fifties because it helps to ease the mature person back in to the relationship game at his or hers own pace. Sitting in the comfort and safety of your own home, you can relax with a cup of tea and browse potential matches at your leisure and only make a move when you are ready. You can get to know a person through emails and telephone calls so that when you finally decide to meet in person, you're already comfortable with each other!
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