Should You Approach A Woman When She Is With Her Friends?

Conventional dating advice will usually tell guys that they should not approach a woman when they see her out with her friends, but is that really the case? I mean, most of the time when you go out to meet women, they are not going to be all alone. They are going to be with other people and so, you have to choose to make your move or not and you might be unsure of what to do because of all of that conventional dating advice that you have probably been exposed to. So, what should you do in a situation like this?

It all depends on how you make your approach. If you walk up to a woman and she is with her friends and you act foolish or goofy or cheesy, then the reaction that you are going to get from her is going to be a lot worse than if you had done that when she was alone. Of course, that is not going to be a good reaction. So, in that context, I would say that it is not at all a good idea.

On the other hand, if you make your approach and you are cool and calm about it and you are wise enough to engage her friends, then it can be a good thing. In fact, if you are able to win over her friends, then you may be able to do better with her than you would if she was not with a group of people. She gets to see that you fit in well with her group and that is always a good thing.

Most women don't want to date a guy who can't get along with the people that they hang out with, so being able to show that you can mix in well with her group is just going to make you look more attractive. The one thing that I do see a lot of men do that actually can make it bad to approach a woman when she is with her friends, is that they try way too hard to impress the whole group and in doing that, they end up making mistakes that they can't make up for.

So, while you do want to engage her friends and be cool and charismatic, you definitely don't want to try so hard that you lose her interest or so that you ignore the fact that she is the one that you are trying to build rapport with. As long as you can engage her friends and you can impress her at the same time, then by all means, you should be able to approach her even if she is not alone.