Did you ever wonder if the guy you're with truly does love you or is simply sticking with you just because you're the hottest girl, by his side, in the neighborhood? There are indeed a lot of men who are pretty lustful and are just after their girlfriends' bodies without investing any real emotion into the relationship, and you're afraid that you might be undervalued as a person. Of course, there are many girls out there who wish to have a boyfriend who gives them true love and nothing less, you included. But, is such a thing possible? Of course it is, but you first need to determine whether or not he truly has feelings for you instead of just going after your body. Below are some signs that it's just lust or love that he's actually feeling for you:
Love
- He would give you a call out of the blue and actually ask you how you're doing, engaging in a very healthy conversation where the both of you have an exchange of ideas, thoughts and emotions.
- He wants to be with you without even thinking of getting in the bed as soon as possible. He actually takes the time to make you feel good with his presence instead of resorting to physical needs.
- He takes good care of you and would go out of his way to ensure that all your needs are satisfied, whether it's physical, emotional or mental.
- He admires who you are as a person and is quite fond of talking to you about anything and everything under the sun.
Lust
- He calls you up to ask you if you're available for a quickie. You're nothing more to him than just a booty call.
- He only wants to have sex with you and doesn't take the time to talk about more important things.
- He doesn't care if you're going through a crisis of sorts, or that you need his presence. He'll only give you a call or be there with you when he feels like it.
- He admires your body and nothing more.
These are signs that it's just lust or actually love that he's feeling towards you. Remember, though, that guys don't usually experience true love until late into the relationship. Therefore, give it time and see where it's headed. If he's not giving you the attention you need, and just would like to be sexual with you, then you're better off.
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