Don't be a nice guy who finishes last - try one of these "bad-boy" emails to catch her interest online.
Have you ever tried to be the NICE GUY when trying to get the attention of women on Online Dating sites? You know you have! In fact, I'll bet you thought it was a GREAT idea to send so called "Nice" emails to them.
You know the kind... the ones where you endlessly compliment her gorgeous smile or her alluring eyes and then you languish on and on about how you've never before seen such beauty in another person.
Or maybe you submit your "nice guy" resume that contains all your "references", stories about how you would do absolutely anything for a woman and would NEVER EVER cheat on her.
Now, how could she say no to such overwhelming "niceness"? Right?
Isn't that what women want?
They always complain about how men are lazy and won't take them out, or the big one - how they aren't "romantic" enough. I'll bet you've even heard stories about women complaining about their Valentine's Day gifts.
I would never be like that! You say.
You'll be different. You'll be the one to come in and sweep her off her feet with such niceness that she won't be able to resist!
Well, it all sounds great in theory and our Mothers always told us how important it is to be "nice" to women, but unfortunately, perception is just not reality in this case.
If there's one thing I see all the time it's that guys just don't understand this concept. They may even try to become one of those famous "pick up artists" and start issuing "negs" to women hoping for a little luck and a different reaction for a change.
And what ultimately happens??
They fall flat on their face!
Why? Because they don't understand the basic theories of attraction.
Listen, women don't always LOVE "badboys" and hate "nice guys." Being a nice guy is nothing to ever be ashamed of, in fact it's something you should consider as valuable.
It's just that they want a nice guy with a little edge to him... that's all. They want a guy who will stand up for himself and not take their crap!
You see this is something that bad-boys do quite easily and with regularity. The problem is that these rebels often take things too far and become abusive and there's a certain class of women out there who don't know how to say no.
Now getting back to emails, how do we send emails that convey this "bad-boy" mystique without taking things way too far?
Well it's simple, you just need to convey your confidence and throw in some edgy personality. Showing off your wit and sense of humor is really the easiest way to do this and it can be extremely effective.
Instead of sending her an email flattering her with compliments like a puppy dog, try emailing her with some fun little jabs and tease her for something she's doing in her pictures. It will be totally unexpected and it's something she doesn't see from most guys.
The result... it get's her attention, makes her smile and forces her to respond to you!
Now don't ever EVER take things too far and get all cocky on her. What do women always say in their profiles?
Confidence is sexy... Cockiness is a turnoff.
There's a reason for that! It's because most guys come across too cocky in their emails and profiles. And these guys don't get any online!!
Mastering the art of conveying confidence and avoiding cockiness isn't easy but once you do you'll have NO problem meeting the woman of your dreams.
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