Have you ever wondered why some women have this certain appeal to men? It seems that they have every man on the planet wrapped around their finger! You scan her from head to toe and there's nothing so special about her. Sure, you don't find her special but there is something that men see in her. We all want to be that kind of woman and find a man who will love and adore us for as long as forever, but do we really know how? Most of us don't have any idea! If you've finally met the man of your dreams and you want him to be in your life, you have to be that kind of woman he needs. How do I get him to fancy me?
If you want a guy to adore you, you must first have to learn what men want in a relationship and what they are looking for in a potential lifelong partner. Contrary to what most women believe in, men don't always go for the typical attractive woman that the media chooses to portray (beautiful, skinny, has big boobs, has perfect skin and has long hair). While these women can easily attract men, the question is, is there all there is to it? Of course not! It doesn't matter what your size is or if you don't have the face of Natalie Portman, if you are comfortable in your own skin, men will find you attractive. Women who carry themselves well are sexy in a man's book. You don't need anyone to compliment you to know that you are beautiful. Keep in mind though that being confident is a far cry from being arrogant.
If you would like a guy to fancy you, you have to be sure who you are on the inside. When you walk into a room, own it! Whether you are wearing a sexy red number or pajamas, walk with confidence and hold your chin up. Don't be threatened if he doesn't call the next day. Have a life outside of your relationship and your man will admire you for this. You should be perfectly fine having your own independent life. Avoid being clingy or needy and don't get jealous for no reason. Being jealous once in a while with your man's officemate is cute but if you keep obsessing about it, you are creating unnecessary tension that will not help him stick around a little longer.
What else can I do to get him to fancy me? Men like being nurtured which means that you have to be that woman who comforts him. When he remembers you, he should be able to think "coming home". One guaranteed way on how you can make him feel nurtured is by cooking for him. Remember what your mother has always said that if you want to win a man's heart, you have to learn how to make his favorite chicken pot pie? Impress him by cooking all his favorite dishes. I'm sure he is going to appreciate your gesture.
Lastly, you can win a man's heart by addressing his fears. Men are protective of their freedom and with that said, they want to be with someone who is not going to take it away from them. Don't nag him whenever he hangs out with his friends. As long as they're not hanging out in a strip club, you shouldn't be complaining. If a guy cares enough about you, he is going to know his limits and won't do anything to make you suspicious and insecure. When he tells you that he is going to play poker with the boys on a Friday night, don't think that he's just trying to avoid you. He's been doing this before you came along so don't give him hell about it.
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