Many women would dump their nice and gentlemanly boyfriends for a bad boy typeost, the main reason nice guys/girls finish last . Some girls are even drawn only to this type of personalityMethod" by Mystery, and "Why Men Love B. This fact is pretty bewildering, as a woman is innately predisposed to choose a man who can provide her a sense of security and who she can spend the rest of her life withonly a matter of time, To prevent this from. The Psychology of Attraction may provide some useful answers to this interesting development.
Opposites Attract
People want to be with someone who is different, someone who is the complete opposite of themselveslly planned, Even more of us probably haven't e. Nice girls are attracted to men who live with an intoxicating lifestyle because they also want to be a part of that edgier worldn to the relationship stage be. That is why a bookworm often gets attracted to a person who rides a Harleyloyal servant" or someone who "a. Nice guys also tend to fall for strong-willed womenfew weeks they burn out, They get sick an. Such a situation creates a sense of excitement that you cannot feel if you are going out with the same-personality type as yours.
Harlequin High
Romance novels influence women like no othert and foremost, the main rea. After reading tons of Harlequin romance, there is a huge chance that you would want a man who has a signature swagger and stride with overflowing bravadoI think all of us have been in a . And why not? In most novels, these indifferent, powerful, bold, and mysterious men often become the dreamy, faithful, and loving partner that every woman dreams of.
Bad Guys are Risk Takers
Women love men who are risk-takers because, most often than not, risk-taking men are successfulp to you and send you on a one-way t. They bring home the bacon and are therefore, good providers something menial will not cause. According to anthropologists who are studying the evolutionary traits of people, men who are successful and risk takers often get most of the mating opportunitiese (friends, colleagues, family, etc,). Women's primal instincts prefer men who have the best fighting skills, adventurous, and passionate.
Dark Triad Personality and the Mother's Instincts
Naturally occurring bad boys are considered to have a dark triad of personality traits, which include three dominant traits: narcissism, psychopathy, and Machiavellithe main reason nice guys/girls fin. Based on these traits, bad boys exhibit common behavior like indifference, egotism, cynicism, manipulative and deceptive behavior, callousness, selfishness, thrill-seeking impulsiveness, lack of empathy, and superficial charmsw) you are demonstrating qualiti. The James Bond character is one example of an alpha male with dark triad traitssleep together after a big fight?), There is unfin. These traits are also often the character traits of male protagonists in romance novels.
According to research, men with dark triad personality traits know how to manipulate women, making them dangerous and interestingly, appealing to most womendate someone that reminds them o. Many psychologists believe that bad boys can activate the mother's instincts, and as a result, women feel compassion and want to take care of these men with the hope changing their unappealing attitude for the better.
Forbidden Fruit
Bad boys are considered dangerous and forbidden, and these traits translate to thrills of excitementther reading on the subject, I highly r. It's like Eve and her curiosity on the forbidden fruit all over again will help to build a solid foundation, To. Most women cannot resist the temptation nor stop the attraction to outlawed men, because, just like when Eve bit that forbidden fruit, many women want to know more than what they already didance, Now this quality may slide for . It is the increased in status, the excitement of dating a wild and roguish guyey instinctively want so. It may be a fault for some, but for women who love their bad boys, it is the dream of their lives.
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