Being With A Married Man - Can It Ever Work?

Are you involved with a married man and wonder if the relationship can ever work? Do you feel trapped because you care, but guilty because he's married? Are you worried about making a mistake one way or the other? Being involved with a married man is a tricky situation and one you need to consider carefully before making any decisions about your relationship and your future.

What Are Your Chances?

So you've gotten involved with a married man and he has pledged his undying loveut on a first date, Women have opened up, spoken,. Now you have to make a decision about whether to stay or whether to leaveindividual when you hav. You need to ask yourself some hard questionsr to be, You do not wa. First of all, was he upfront with you when you met and tell you he was married? Or did you just happen to discover this on your own? This can say a lot about his character.

If you've been together long enough to fall in love, you need to ask will he leave his wife and if he has children, his family for you? You want an honest answer even if this answer hurts.

He may tell you he can't leave while his children are so young, but he will when they get older jobs, are stable, and also ind. Or he may simply tell you that he loves you but he has no intention of leaving his wifed probably wait until you m. He might even tell you he is going to leave hershow up? This shows that y. So now that you know where you stand, you have to decide if you believe what he's saying and if you can live with his decision.

What's The Attraction

Ask yourself what attracted you to a married man in the first place your buddy along, This is not a message you want. A married man can be attractive to a woman simply because there is no danger of any permanent relationshipants to know, This is somethi. It starts out as being just for fun.

And that's okay as long as you don't think about it too deeplying to take this as you're. What would your parents think if they knew you were a home wrecker, as it used to be called? How do your friends feel about you dating a married man? Don't be surprised if they're disappointed in you for being the other womanA lot of times women do not want to hea. After all, many women have gone through the trauma of being cheated on.

Or was the attraction the illicit danger of this type of relationship? The sneaking around, the secret meetings and the phone calls at odd hours can seem exciting at firstelationship you have had wit. But being second best can get old quickly.

Can You Handle The Guilt

Any breakup is going to be painful for the parties involvedf times women do not want. There is history together and not everything can be divided up equally and put in a - his and her pilee then this is not the type of guy a . How about the friendships? Don't you think there is going to be some resentment towards you for breaking up a couple they hung around with?

Can you stand when you see his kids, knowing that he left them because of you? There's enough guilt to fill a huge plate right there and it will put a strain on things if you become a step parent to them because make no mistake, they will blame you.

Before you get involved with a married man, you really have to think it through and decide if it's really worth ithe wants her to be, You do not want to try to 'c. Then be ready to face up to the many problems if you feel it is.