Monday, January 17, 2011

Tips on How to Approach a Woman - 3 Tips to Help You Approach Women With More Confidence

Just about every man knows what it's like to feel the lack of confidence when approaching a woman, but not every guy knows what it is like to feel confident when making that approach. The difference in the responses and the results that you get when you DO have that confident air about yourself is like night and day. Suddenly you will feel like you have been blessed with some magical ability to attract women, and it will all be because of that confidence that you feel in yourself when you make your approach.

Here are 3 tips that can help you to have that experience and know what it is like to approach a woman with confidence:

1. Confidence always builds with experience, so get some experience.

This should be straight forward enough, but many guys fall into that catch 22 where they need to have experience, but they lack the confidence to get that experience. Here's a solution: Start approaching women that you are not interested in, but normally would not approach to get that experience. When you don't feel like you have to get a certain result, it takes away a lot of the pressure that you feel. Walk up to women just to start a conversation and after a few times, you will feel more comfortable in doing this.

2. Break the ice with a little joke.

Jokes are usually the easiest way to break the ice with a woman you don't know, and it does not have to be the best joke out there. All it has to do is to make her laugh and put a smile on her face. That way, both you and her will feel a little more comfortable with the situation, and some of that tense feeling will alleviate and you can feel more in control of the situation.

3. Don't have an absolute end result in mind.

A lot of the second thoughts that men have about approaching women all has to do with the pressure that they put on themselves. They walk up to a woman thinking that they *have* to get a date or a phone number. Having that need to have an end result in mind is just going to make it harder on you. Just let the whole interaction flow, and if it flows right, then try to get a result. When you take away the pressure of having to get a number or a date, they start to just happen a lot more often.



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