Is Your Boyfriend Tired of You? How to Make Him Adore You Again

Is your boyfriend tired of you? Maybe he hasn't come right out and said that to you directly, but you can read between the lines. The man isn't as into you as he once was and it's painful. You miss the days when you felt utterly adored and cherished by him. Now you wonder if he's on the verge of breaking up with you. It's not easy living like that and you don't need to do it one more day. If you want to re-energize your relationship and get your guy as crazy about you now as he was back then it's easier than you think.

Men grow tired of women for several reasons but generally there's a common thread. If the relationship is no longer exciting to him, he's not going to feel as invested in it. Men want to be kept on their toes and they want to continually guess about what's around the next corner. If he knows that you're completely devoted to him and if he can expect that Friday night means a movie and dinner at your place, that's going to grow old for him very quickly. He'd much rather feel as though there are surprises along the way. That's why one of the easiest ways to get a failing relationship back on track is to start being unpredictable.

Don't confess your unwavering devotion to him anymore. You should stop doing this at least for the time being. He'll actually be more interested in you if he's unsure of how strong your feelings are. One of the easiest ways to recapture a man's interest is to become disinterested in him for a few days. This works like a charm and many women use it as a secret weapon to keep their man wanting them.

You also need to make yourself more interesting not only for his benefit but for your own too. As women most of us have been guilty of losing our own sense of self in a relationship. We put our guy's needs first and in the process we become a shell of the dynamic and vital woman we used to be. Put yourself first beginning today. Do things that you love to do and pamper yourself. If you put your needs above his, he will have a renewed respect for you. Men love being with a woman who is strong and in control of he own life so show your guy that's exactly who you are.

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