Monday, January 3, 2011

How Do You Know If You Should Give a Guy Space?- Indications to Show You That He Needs His Space

Whatever be the kind of relationship, whether dating or marriage, every person, man or woman, wants their space. Your guy too must surely crave his space and it is for you to identify this need before he has reason to point it out by saying it in that many words. Here are indications for you to watch out for.

He begins to display irritation
When a guy begins to display irritation and short temperedness then you should guess that he is dissatisfied about certain things. It's only that he's not voicing it to you. But you should be able to decipher the underlying fact beneath this display.

He withdraws partially
When you detect your boyfriend withdrawing from you partially, you should take the hint that he wants to stay away and that you too should stay away. He is desperate for his space and so he keeps away from you by withdrawing partially.

He remains silent and distant
The fact that he wants his space is clear from the fact that he remains silent and distant even though he is sitting right there beside you. He wants peace and quietude and is not in the mood to communicate. These are sure signs of a person wanting their space.

He withholds information
Suddenly you will find that your guy has begun withholding information from you. He does not discuss issues that he once openly broached to talk them over for your suggestions and ideas. Perhaps you have been too imposing with your ideas and he resents it now.

Arguments are on the rise
You find, of late, that arguments are on the rise unlike earlier when they hardly seemed to happen. And now they've increased and do not stop there. The arguments always seem to culminate in a more serious misunderstanding or quarrel.

He avoids meeting you
From the fact that he avoids meeting you, it will be clear to you that he wants to stay away for longer periods of time. He wants to claim his space and privacy more than meeting you. You should consider these open hints and give him the space he wants.

He shows disinterest in the common things
Unlike earlier, your guy now shows a distinct disinterest in the things you both found pleasure in doing. It is time for you to take the cue and stay away more often. Give him the space that he has been craving. But later when he pursues don't relent easily. Maintain your space and lay your terms.



This article is brought to you by Relationships Advice Blog.

No comments:

Post a Comment