You need to know if you really mean something to your guy. You have suffered enough since the breakup and want to know if he is missing you or has moved on! Before you give up all hope you should look for the following signs that will let you know if he yearns for you to come back.
Does he try to find out if you are with someone else?
One of the first things your ex will do if he is missing you is try and find out if you have moved on and are in a relationship with someone else. He will ask your friends and hang around to see for himself if you are still "free" so that he can pursue you all over again.
Has he started frequenting the spots that were special to the two of you
If you have noticed that he has started turning up in all your favorite haunts, especially at the places that meant something to the two of you when you were together, he is trying to tell you that he misses you and the past dreadfully.
Has he started to call you up again
Another sure sign that he is missing you and is regretting the breakup is when he starts calling you. The tone of his voice, the choice of words and the nature of his calls will let you know that he has been thinking of you a lot and is missing you like crazy. He will drop broad hints that he wants to get together again.
Does he want you to meet for "old time's sake"
Old boyfriends and exes will try to get you to meet them again if they are missing you. Has your ex been after you to meet him so that you could "talk" over a cup of coffee? This is one of the oldest tricks in the book. Before you know it he will be leaning towards you and pressing for another "harmless" and "platonic" date for old time's sake!
Does he touch you and try to get personal again
Because of the past you shared, it will be easy for your ex to touch you in a casual yet personal way. When you find him sitting close enough to brush his thigh against yours, leaning forward to touch your knee or just staring at you, you should know that he is longing to be together with you once again. He misses you and is trying to get that message across.
Is he wearing the shirt that you loved
If your ex is missing you dreadfully, he will do everything he can to get you back! One of these ways is to make you desire him again. He will wear the shirt you used to love to see him in, or dress in a way that he knows used to turn you on. From humming "your" song to mentioning special romantic holidays you shared with him, he will jog your memory!
Has he stopped dating?
Even if he dated other woman after the breakup, he could stop if he has realized that he is missing you desperately. If you notice that he has stopped going out with other women and is trying to woo you again, then you should know that he is missing you because he still loves you.
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