How to Tell If a Guy Is Not Serious About You? Now You Will Be Able to Tell Almost Instantly

Just as one is able to tell if a guy is serious about you, it is also possible to tell if he is not serious about you. There are ways in which you will know that he isn't serious. His ways will give him away. Read ahead to understand how-

He'll meet with you in your group only
He will try to meet up with you when you are with your group and entice you first. Once he is sure of his footing then he will arrange to meet you in private. His talk with you will be superficial and limited to being around only with your group.

He'll make his intention clear
If his intentions have been only to bed you, it will be visible and clear to you, right in the beginning. He will make his intentions clear by asking you over to his place for a good time with you. In that case your guy is not serious about you.

Does he talk about you loosely
Is he talking loosely about you to his friends? If he was in the least serious about you then he would not talk like that. He would talk with more respect when he refers or speaks about you. You will come to know this through your or his friends.

Has he spoken seriously to you about futuristic plans?
Has he ever broached the subject of discussing with you his futuristic plans? If he has done so of his own accord then he is serious. But if he has not brought up the subject or has evaded it then he is not serious about you.

Has he asked your plans for the future?
If he is serious about you then he would ask your plans about the future and if you would like to settle down with him. He also needs to know if you like him to the extent of wanting to spend a lifetime with him or are you just casual about the friendship.

Proposing marriage to you
Now that he knows your plans and acceptability of a future together he should have proposed marriage to you. But if he still hasn't then there is reason to wonder at his seriousness about you. What would be the reason of his delaying marriage?

Speaking to his and your folks
He should also now arrange to speak with your and his folks of the intended marriage. If he does not still bring up the subject and declare to his or your folks his intention then you need to doubt his seriousness about you.

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