If you know who you want and your heart has already zeroed in on him, isn't it your desire to make him feel the same way about you? What necessary steps should you do in order to make him grow closer to you?
Just as a guy would do it...befriend him first.
After all, the best relationships in the world are based on strong friendship. In order to befriend him, you will have to get to know his friends. You may also have to join him on some of his activities.
Just as an investigator would do it...scour for info about him.
But please don't do this in a stalker kind of way. Just casually ask his friends what his favorite foods are and where he likes to hang out. The more information you get about him, the more that you'll be able to find out what your common interests are.
Just like a comedian...have the right comedic timing.
Have fun. Scowling won't resolve any issues or problems so it's best to smile instead. All people in the world have problems of their own yet the best know how to handle them properly - they smile and have fun. Have a few jokes up your sleeve and unleash them at a crowd that will readily devour them! Watch him admire you as you do this.
You're not here to be his friend.
Since you would want to get closer to him by befriending him first, just be cautious that you don't overdo this. He may mistake your intention as wanting to be just friends. Make your intentions clear from the very beginning.
The smartest and most confident girls get the men that they want.
If you like a certain guy, the only way that you could win him is to be your best self. Make him see your most self-assured side and he'll definitely want to get closer to you.
Read the signals that he wants to convey.
You may be worrying about something that you're not supposed to worry about. He may already be making some moves on you and all you have to do is to correctly interpret these moves. He may already be pressing himself to get closer to you but if you're oblivious, then nothing will happen.
Casually ask him out.
You're a woman of the 21st century so go ahead and take charge! If you've been doing all the moves and he remains immovable, then it's time to take matters into your own hands and ask him out! You're a strong, confident and sexy woman so you should just go ahead and do it..
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