What Shall I Say When Asking a Guy Out? Here Is What You Should Follow Before Asking Him Out

Asking a guy out is a scary proposition. But when you do want to ask a guy out you have to be sure that you use the right words as you don't want to scare him off or come across as a desperate woman. So, here are some of the words that you should and shouldn't use while asking a guy out.

Have a plan in place
Having a plan in place and knowing what to say is essential when you want to ask a guy out. You have to show yourself as a confident woman who knows what she is doing. So first things first, figure out where you want to take him.

Strike up a conversation
Your words have to be very cool when build the conversation when you want to ask a guy out. Start with "did you hear about the XXX?" (Mention latest movie, concert, or event that you would like to take him to). This will make sure that you come across as a positive person and it also helps in building your conversation.

Talk of your interest
Provided you have the same interest level in the gig you want to invite him to, start to talk about your interest in that. Say that you have been a big fan and talk about why you like this thing. Then ask him, "What do you think about their music/his book/the movie?"

Ask questions
Asking questions always helps in building the conversation. As he revels more about his interest you get a deeper insight into his mind and can show him your interest levels accordingly.

Ask him if he would like to do something together
Now you need to ask him if he would like to hang out with you and go for that particular event. Make it sound like a casual evening out and something very non committal. That way he will be comfortable committing to it.

Give him a compliment
Don't hang around for too long once you have made your plans as you don't want to run out of conversation. You also want to build up some intrigue for him. But before you sign off give him an intelligent compliment. Tell him that "it was really nice talking to you. You have a great deal of depth and insight into XXX" (whatever you have been talking about).

Confirm the date
Now before you leave tell him "I'm looking forward to meeting you." Smile and then say "it's a date then"...and you will have efficiently asked a guy out.

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