There is a popular saying that absence makes the heart grow fonder. This is absolutely true and those in a long distance relationship would surely confirm this. Absence makes couples seemingly crazier about each other, especially when they have to spend longer moments away from one another. Absence might also get your guy to get nervous about the relationship and here's why:
It's like the first date each and every time.
If you haven't seen each other for months then, the moment you see each other, you two would be totally nervous and excited. When you two go out, it would seem like it is your first date once again. Of course, first dates equate to a lot of awkward moments and, yes, jittery nerves.
He would wonder if you still like him.
The time you two spent apart might put up a lot of paranoia in your man. Of course, he doesn't know if you already met another guy who is better than he is. Being away from him has its perks as he will constantly wonder whether you still belong to him or not.
He's nervous if you've changed.
Along with the paranoia, he is also scared that you are not the same person he's loved before. When you two were away, the communication may have still been there but he's scared that the connection may have gone. He is nervous that your experiences while being away from him might have made a stranger out of you.
He thinks that you might get bored with.
He is having butterflies all over his stomach with the thought of you finding him boring. Again, the time away from each other might make him think that you've made friends while being away from him and that you'd enjoy their company more than his. Or, he might simply think that your idea of fun just isn't the same anymore.
He's afraid that you might realize you don't need him after all.
He's afraid that you might feel that you are better off single. You lasted months without him by his side and you've grown independent from your man. The time apart may have given you both a lot of time to reconsider your relationship and he's afraid that you might not need him anymore.
Your time together might mean nothing to you anymore.
Absence may make the heart grow fonder but it also has its price. He would normally get nervous in thinking that you might have forgotten how it felt to be with him and so you're just about ready to discard him any minute.
He wants to have as much time with you.
Don't be surprised if he'll want to make each day with you much more memorable than the last. He is dying to make each minute important and this gets him really nervous, knowing that he might fall short of your expectations.
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