How to Ask a Shy Guy Out? You Need a Different Set of Tools to Deal With a Shy Guy & Ask Him Out

You have noticed a cute guy you would like to date but there is a problem. He is too shy to ask you out. If you wait for him to muster enough courage to approach you and ask you out then you may have to wait for an eternity. Here are some ways to draw him out of his shell so that he asks you out boldly.

Get an introduction
This can be done either directly or indirectly through mutual friends. If both the options are out of the question then you can try becoming friends with his sister. This way you will have enough chances to meet him. Whichever way you do it get an introduction so that you two are no longer strangers to each other.

Get friendlier
Your best bet at being friendlier with him would be by engaging in a conversation with him whenever possible. The more you talk to him the more you learn about him and the less intimidating you seem. Begin with small conversations and slowly increase the duration of your discussions.

Give him a happy smile
Whenever you meet him or see him make sure that you give him a million dollar smile. He needs to know that you are happy to see him. This should make him comfortable and he will not feel awkward in your presence.

Begin to mix with his friends
Now that you know him you may begin to spend some time with his group. However, don't hang around for more than what is necessary. You don't want pile on him. Once you become a little popular with his friends they will do your bidding.

Speak the language of love with your eyes
Whenever you are together or whenever you see him always speak to him while looking him in the eye. There is a chance that he may avoid eye contact however, as time passes and he gets comfortable he will also make eye contact with you.

Do stuff together
Find out what interests him the most. Once you know that he likes some activity then you may start spending some time with him doing those activities. Since he will be in his comfort zone he will feel more open and uninhibited.

Casual flirting
When you have spent a reasonable period of time doing things that he enjoys then it is time that you become a bit physical and start flirting with him. Tease him a bit and break the touch barrier. Tell him that you like him and feel happy to be with him. You may also flatter him by saying that the time spent with him is one you cherish. This will give him the courage to ask you out formally.

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