4 Ways to Be More Confident Around Attractive Women

Most men will not approach an attractive woman because they lack self confidence. It's those thoughts in the back of their head screaming at them like she doesn't want to talk to me or she's too busy or what would I say, you know the ones. In this article I am going to share with you 4 ways to be more confident around attractive women.

1. Relax

Easier said than done, right! It's the mind chatter that takes over your self confidence so you have to learn how to shut that out. Before you approach an attractive woman, put yourself in a relaxed state. Take deep breaths, visualize the conversation you are having, imagine yourself making her laugh and then imagine the outcome as being a positive one.

Visualization is the best way to put you into the moment and into a relaxed state. Remove any negative outcomes from your mind. Just remind yourself that no matter what the outcome is, you can deal with it and it won't affect you in the least.

2. Mediation

Certain activities will put you in a much more relaxed state quicker than anything. Medication is one of those. I use to think meditation was for weirdo's but have since learned that it's the number one way to relax your mind and your body. All that is required is to give yourself some quiet time to just clear your mind of everything and just enjoy the moment. It can be for a minute or as long as you want. The more you meditate, the more relaxed you become in life and the better the outcome will be when dealing with any type of circumstances that come your way, especially when approaching women. All I can say is don't knock it until you've tried it.

3. Your Strengths

One of the best ways to build up your self confidence is to write down all of the qualities you have that make you a great person. Keep that list with you tucked in your wallet so whenever a situation occurs when you aren't quite feeling confident, take out that list and read it.

It's been said that people criticize themselves somewhere around 10,000 times a day and very seldom compliment their good traits. If you started your morning each day by reading that list of all your great qualities, your confidence levels will definitely increase and you will soon find that you have no problem approaching women.

4. Be Positive

It's a known fact that women are more attracted to men who are always smiling and have a positive outlook on life. Just try to remember that no matter what kind of day you are having, smile and be positive. Even if you are "faking" a confident personality, you'll eventually develop this very same personality trait.

I definitely hope you have found these 4 ways to be more confident around attractive women helpful. Remember to learn how to relax, meditate, know your strengths and be more positive. In no time at all the women will be approaching you so you better watch out!

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