Does He Just Want To Sleep With Me? 7 Really Good Tricks to Know It Before He Ends Up Using You

If you have engaged in intercourse early into a relationship, and you are starting to wonder whether or not he is with you for only the sexual activities, then here are a few things you can check to see what his intentions are really about.

How Does He Respond To The "L" Word?

If a guy who is having sex with you is unable to reciprocate feelings of love, then the chances are that he is not willing to put forth an effort as he wants only sex.

How Are Your Phone Conversations?

When you talk on the phone with your boyfriend, and he talks about sex or sex-related items all of the time, it is a good possibility that he is only in it for the physical interactions. You need a guy who enjoys talking to you about your life instead of just his carnal cravings.

How Does He Respond To "No"?

While sex is pleasurable for both of you, and a great way to become intimate, it is also a great way to destroy the primary basis of a relationship. If you say no one night when he wants to have sex, and he gets angry, the chances are that he is just in it for sleeping with you.

Where Do You Hang Out?

If your boyfriend prefers hanging out in an area where you are both alone all of the time like an apartment, house, or basement where no one else is around, he is generally trying to set up the scene for sex. Try to get him out of the house, go out in public, and be around people to get to really connect.

Does He Only Come Over When You're Alone?

While wanting to spend time alone with you is not a bad thing, but if he goes right to physical contact as soon as the two of you are alone, then you may need to take a step back.

Do You Have Boundaries When In Public?

When you are with him around his "gang" he should openly identify you as his girlfriend, and keep physical contact to a minimum. Sitting next to each other, maybe giving him a backrub or holding hands is encouraged as it shows the bond that the two of you have, but more serious signs of PDA should throw up some red flags.

Is He A Cheater?

Hopefully your boyfriend will not go so low as to sleep around if you refuse to have sex with him occasionally, however if he does you need to get out. You deserve to be treated better than that, and there are great guys out there who will respect you for who you are.

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